Lean, Slender,Skinny Women get bullied too and get called names from Skeleton, Sickly, Anorexic, Bulemic, to skinny bitches, to plain bones, to unreal woman, what makes this fact stay low is because we [the little tall lean people] actually don't give a flying Eff about it, at least not publicly like the other women do! We get bullied by the bigger women type who feel bad about themselves and men who cannot have our bony ass in their hands.
People who feel too great outside but insecure internally, call lean women or slim women 'skinny bitches' all the time and no one calls that Bullying. The other group of women who are not exactly 'slender' think that the slender women have it all smooth, but am here to tell you as a slim lady, we get our own share of bullying. You've heard Kingangi & Maina on Classic Radio say skinny women are plain trouble makers which is not true!
Let me set this straight, I am a small woman which is UK size is 6 and US size 2. Where the inches for Bust Waist & Hips are 31/30, 24/25, 34/35 respectively, and I and my many skinny buddies have no apologies to make for this awesome size. People on the other side, we too, get insulted, laughed at and pointed at, by those who do not agree with our 'american bodies' and mark you, we got emotions, we feel it, but we move on and concentrate only with people who appreciate us!
Me and my fellow tiny women whose fat has blatantly refused to settle on our bodies, swore not to 'synthetically' add weight for anyone or anything, we are okay as we are, we find love, get the hate, we overeat and bloat like anyone else. Some people treat us like children and think they can use our bodies for experiments. Me and my 'skinny' women guild, will not inject fat on our ass or boobs or even belly to satisfy your evil ego! So if you don't like it skinny, look elsewhere, we have the variety.
Skinny Women Are Little Bitter 'Bitches'
This is a myth and very untrue, and utterly wrong to assume or refer to someone. I have been called that ugly word by people who do not know me at all just because I did not answer to the 'cat call'...but who cares its not a must for me or you to answer to every greeting from every dirty mouthed Tom, Dick & Harry. Anyone can 'act a bitch' including a beggar, I'm sure in this city a beggar or two has insulted you for giving him a coin. People all over say that skinny women have it easy, no we don't. Life is hard for us too, we are not bitter, we are busy hustling and therefore no nonsense!
Skinny Women Are Trouble Makers
Skinny women are not trouble makers. This is just an ill meant assumption. I know fellow small women that are very good ladies to talk to and hang out with. I know of other curvy women who are great trouble makers, trouble making doesn't come with body size! in any case slender people are the best party people, we are the life at your party, learn to appreciate us please...although, we are not begging! We do not like taken for granted and if you try we shall cause drama in your life, our revenge is instant. We don't necessarily hold grudges around.
Skinny Women Do Not Eat
We friggin' do eat! A lot! I eat all the time! ask my mother! I go to her house and all I do is eat. My grandma' also always complains that I don't eat whenever she sees me and warns me that I'll die of starvation...LOL!. She asks me to quit modelling if its the one making me not eat and on the contrary, I eat till I cannot eat anymore. This is just another lame assumption. We have a fast metabolism and out fat burns quickly and we are also very active because we want to wear our six inch shoes til we are forty five like Jeniffer Lopez... I in particular do squats every say at least 70-100 of them, not to burn fat, but to keep fit. Plus... I am very healthy, I have donated blood, 'carried' an 80Kg 'beast' and popped a healthy 4 kg baby boy with my little body, so please! keep your nasty away!
Skinny Women Are Promiscuous
Nope! Everyone and anyone, men and women, young and old, priests and pastors, can be promiscuous! This is not based on weight ranges. Even overweight people can over-love sex and go humping on everything. Old women and men do this all the time. This myth is just a myth to make slim women look evil and full of disease...and anyway, who doesn't love sex? just because a tiny teeny lady refused to sleep with you, you don't have the right to spread that gossip!
Skinny Women Are Lazy
This is just another hater myth! skinny women are not lazy! I wake up at 5 to prepare for work and so does everyone else! and when am not going to work I wake up to read a book, not for exams but just for my own entertainment! many skinny women are very successful out here, just look around and see from the pretty Beatrice Marshall, Tegla Lorupe, Princess Diana, To Naomi Campbell, to Tyra, to Christine Lagarde MD of the International Monetary Fund. Anyone with any body size has the potential to be lazy or otherwise! including the big ones! So Please!
Skinny Women Are Arrogant
Very untrue! we are the best people to converse with. We make friends easily. We are friendly and we are very confident, we put it on your face so that you do not get a chance to put us and our little bodies down! Its our defense mechanism, so if you think that is arrogant, great! No one can put you down when you have your confidence on your sleeve. No One! Love yourself and let them talk! You teach people how to treat you!
Skinny Women Are Weak
Yeah right! you'll say skinny women are weak until one gives you a good cat fight or a good bitch slap. I warned you! I know of skinnier women who have gone through hours of labour pains and popped a 4.1 kg baby out! So y'all should shut the heck up on this kind of hate! All women are strong!
Skinny Women Love & Prefer Only Foreigners
Arrggggh! This is a lie, here I am, I love local guys! When me and my kind goes to the 'Wazungus' its because y'all pushing us there since you insist we are made for the white boys! again, why the heck would I let some white love who is treating me like a queen, respecting me and pampering me, pass me by? again, if a black kenyan guy gives me the same, i'll take it wholeheartedly!
Skinny Women Are Daft & Not Real Women
This is a hater comment. I have seen skinny women who are very intelligent! and have worked their way up the ladder and not slept with the boss to achieve it! People go ahead and say skinny women are not 'real women' or rather 'real African women'. The solution is; you don't have to comment on how skinny and fake the skinny one is when you can choose a fat and curvy one any day, or do you?
Skinny Women Like It In The Ass
Who came up with this kind of nonsense! we love and honor or little bodies and we don't allow the Tom, Dick & Harry gang members to do whatever they like with us and in us! We respect our selves way too much, thats why they will say we are arrogant! Every one, big & small make their own choices on what they like and dislike, this is not based on sizes! so give skinny women a darn break!
Skinny Women Are 'Players' & Cannot Be Trusted
Nope. We are not. We are the most trustworthy people. This statement is made by insecure individuals who think they can mistreat you and get away with it. When you treat us bad, we don't stay to put up with the bullshit, we cry for the night and we move on from your crap real quick without wasting minutes!
You Need To Be Skinny To Be Beautiful
Not Really! this is another TV misinformation, I have seen very beautiful curvy women in this city. The curvy, thick women are just as beautiful as the skinny ladies out here, and in the end only a personality matters in every angle of it!
•We come in different sizes, lets be comfortable with it and appreciate individuality! Variety is the spice of life! and in anycase, you do not have to put other people down so you can put your selfish ass on the pedestal, cuz that's what people do! including fellow women! you can now sit yo' ass down, this is not a competition, we are just living life!
We come in different sizes, the fat is not the same as curvy and skinny is not the same as anorexic! we are all women and whoever is not satisfied with their size can change it by adding weight or reducing it with whichever method. But I and I and I, categorically refuse to try to fit in what others feel I could look better in, so should you...lets cut the bullshit, its not productive! FYI, gaining weight is as hard as losing it!
Men, instead of asking your skinny woman to add weight so that she can be more attractive to you, how about you get yourself a woman who already has the weight, who won't need adding?!
Let me rub it on you, in this world, you just CANNOT WIN!
When you are big/fat, they say you are a disgusting pig who loves to eat everything and anything!
When you are skinny, they say you are a skeleton and not a real woman and you're allergic to food!
When you are shy they say you are ugly, a pretender, stupid, without self confidence and no one wants to hang out with you!
When you are going places genuinely, they'll say you're a slut sleeping en-route the top...
When you choose to stay single, they'll say no one likes you..When you choose not to have kids, they'll call you barren...So since no one can really entirely win, why don't we just accept ourselves and move on to issues that matter?!
Your Skinny Friend,
©Njoki-TheGoodBadGirl™2015
People who feel too great outside but insecure internally, call lean women or slim women 'skinny bitches' all the time and no one calls that Bullying. The other group of women who are not exactly 'slender' think that the slender women have it all smooth, but am here to tell you as a slim lady, we get our own share of bullying. You've heard Kingangi & Maina on Classic Radio say skinny women are plain trouble makers which is not true!
Let me set this straight, I am a small woman which is UK size is 6 and US size 2. Where the inches for Bust Waist & Hips are 31/30, 24/25, 34/35 respectively, and I and my many skinny buddies have no apologies to make for this awesome size. People on the other side, we too, get insulted, laughed at and pointed at, by those who do not agree with our 'american bodies' and mark you, we got emotions, we feel it, but we move on and concentrate only with people who appreciate us!
Its so unfair that Its been made a crime to call the big women 'fat' and very okay to brand the small ones 'Skinny Bitch' and ask them to go eat a hot dog!
Me and my fellow tiny women whose fat has blatantly refused to settle on our bodies, swore not to 'synthetically' add weight for anyone or anything, we are okay as we are, we find love, get the hate, we overeat and bloat like anyone else. Some people treat us like children and think they can use our bodies for experiments. Me and my 'skinny' women guild, will not inject fat on our ass or boobs or even belly to satisfy your evil ego! So if you don't like it skinny, look elsewhere, we have the variety.
 |
| Skinny&Comfortable |
Let Me Break The Myths Surrounding 'Skinny' Women....
Skinny Women Are Little Bitter 'Bitches'
This is a myth and very untrue, and utterly wrong to assume or refer to someone. I have been called that ugly word by people who do not know me at all just because I did not answer to the 'cat call'...but who cares its not a must for me or you to answer to every greeting from every dirty mouthed Tom, Dick & Harry. Anyone can 'act a bitch' including a beggar, I'm sure in this city a beggar or two has insulted you for giving him a coin. People all over say that skinny women have it easy, no we don't. Life is hard for us too, we are not bitter, we are busy hustling and therefore no nonsense!
Skinny Women Are Trouble Makers
Skinny women are not trouble makers. This is just an ill meant assumption. I know fellow small women that are very good ladies to talk to and hang out with. I know of other curvy women who are great trouble makers, trouble making doesn't come with body size! in any case slender people are the best party people, we are the life at your party, learn to appreciate us please...although, we are not begging! We do not like taken for granted and if you try we shall cause drama in your life, our revenge is instant. We don't necessarily hold grudges around.
Skinny Women Do Not Eat
We friggin' do eat! A lot! I eat all the time! ask my mother! I go to her house and all I do is eat. My grandma' also always complains that I don't eat whenever she sees me and warns me that I'll die of starvation...LOL!. She asks me to quit modelling if its the one making me not eat and on the contrary, I eat till I cannot eat anymore. This is just another lame assumption. We have a fast metabolism and out fat burns quickly and we are also very active because we want to wear our six inch shoes til we are forty five like Jeniffer Lopez... I in particular do squats every say at least 70-100 of them, not to burn fat, but to keep fit. Plus... I am very healthy, I have donated blood, 'carried' an 80Kg 'beast' and popped a healthy 4 kg baby boy with my little body, so please! keep your nasty away!
Skinny Women Are Promiscuous
Nope! Everyone and anyone, men and women, young and old, priests and pastors, can be promiscuous! This is not based on weight ranges. Even overweight people can over-love sex and go humping on everything. Old women and men do this all the time. This myth is just a myth to make slim women look evil and full of disease...and anyway, who doesn't love sex? just because a tiny teeny lady refused to sleep with you, you don't have the right to spread that gossip!
Skinny Women Are Lazy
This is just another hater myth! skinny women are not lazy! I wake up at 5 to prepare for work and so does everyone else! and when am not going to work I wake up to read a book, not for exams but just for my own entertainment! many skinny women are very successful out here, just look around and see from the pretty Beatrice Marshall, Tegla Lorupe, Princess Diana, To Naomi Campbell, to Tyra, to Christine Lagarde MD of the International Monetary Fund. Anyone with any body size has the potential to be lazy or otherwise! including the big ones! So Please!
Skinny Women Are Arrogant
Very untrue! we are the best people to converse with. We make friends easily. We are friendly and we are very confident, we put it on your face so that you do not get a chance to put us and our little bodies down! Its our defense mechanism, so if you think that is arrogant, great! No one can put you down when you have your confidence on your sleeve. No One! Love yourself and let them talk! You teach people how to treat you!
Skinny Women Are Weak
Yeah right! you'll say skinny women are weak until one gives you a good cat fight or a good bitch slap. I warned you! I know of skinnier women who have gone through hours of labour pains and popped a 4.1 kg baby out! So y'all should shut the heck up on this kind of hate! All women are strong!
Skinny Women Love & Prefer Only Foreigners
Arrggggh! This is a lie, here I am, I love local guys! When me and my kind goes to the 'Wazungus' its because y'all pushing us there since you insist we are made for the white boys! again, why the heck would I let some white love who is treating me like a queen, respecting me and pampering me, pass me by? again, if a black kenyan guy gives me the same, i'll take it wholeheartedly!
Skinny Women Are Daft & Not Real Women
This is a hater comment. I have seen skinny women who are very intelligent! and have worked their way up the ladder and not slept with the boss to achieve it! People go ahead and say skinny women are not 'real women' or rather 'real African women'. The solution is; you don't have to comment on how skinny and fake the skinny one is when you can choose a fat and curvy one any day, or do you?
Skinny Women Like It In The Ass
Who came up with this kind of nonsense! we love and honor or little bodies and we don't allow the Tom, Dick & Harry gang members to do whatever they like with us and in us! We respect our selves way too much, thats why they will say we are arrogant! Every one, big & small make their own choices on what they like and dislike, this is not based on sizes! so give skinny women a darn break!
Skinny Women Are 'Players' & Cannot Be Trusted
Nope. We are not. We are the most trustworthy people. This statement is made by insecure individuals who think they can mistreat you and get away with it. When you treat us bad, we don't stay to put up with the bullshit, we cry for the night and we move on from your crap real quick without wasting minutes!
You Need To Be Skinny To Be Beautiful
Not Really! this is another TV misinformation, I have seen very beautiful curvy women in this city. The curvy, thick women are just as beautiful as the skinny ladies out here, and in the end only a personality matters in every angle of it!
•We come in different sizes, lets be comfortable with it and appreciate individuality! Variety is the spice of life! and in anycase, you do not have to put other people down so you can put your selfish ass on the pedestal, cuz that's what people do! including fellow women! you can now sit yo' ass down, this is not a competition, we are just living life!
We come in different sizes, the fat is not the same as curvy and skinny is not the same as anorexic! we are all women and whoever is not satisfied with their size can change it by adding weight or reducing it with whichever method. But I and I and I, categorically refuse to try to fit in what others feel I could look better in, so should you...lets cut the bullshit, its not productive! FYI, gaining weight is as hard as losing it!
Men, instead of asking your skinny woman to add weight so that she can be more attractive to you, how about you get yourself a woman who already has the weight, who won't need adding?!
Let me rub it on you, in this world, you just CANNOT WIN!
When you are big/fat, they say you are a disgusting pig who loves to eat everything and anything!
When you are skinny, they say you are a skeleton and not a real woman and you're allergic to food!
When you are shy they say you are ugly, a pretender, stupid, without self confidence and no one wants to hang out with you!
When you are going places genuinely, they'll say you're a slut sleeping en-route the top...
When you choose to stay single, they'll say no one likes you..When you choose not to have kids, they'll call you barren...So since no one can really entirely win, why don't we just accept ourselves and move on to issues that matter?!
Your Skinny Friend,
©Njoki-TheGoodBadGirl™2015