Being put in the Sex Zone by a man hurts more than the Friendzone, it is more devaluing when you're only zoned as good for sex in the dark by someone you actually have feelings for.
Every guy wants and loves sex just as we do. The difference is whether someone really wants you as a whole as well. The good thing is, most of these guys are so lame such that you'll know when they just want to "sex zone" trap you, to place you on the booty-call list, you only need to pay attention.
You'll know by how a man treats you and talks to you if he is just looking to get laid. While you're accepting this deal, be aware that you cannot have sex with a man enough to make him eventually like you or marry you. A man will take advantage of this door - even when he is in 3 other relationships, until YOU get a brain to cut him off.
Every guy wants and loves sex just as we do. The difference is whether someone really wants you as a whole as well. The good thing is, most of these guys are so lame such that you'll know when they just want to "sex zone" trap you, to place you on the booty-call list, you only need to pay attention.
You'll know by how a man treats you and talks to you if he is just looking to get laid. While you're accepting this deal, be aware that you cannot have sex with a man enough to make him eventually like you or marry you. A man will take advantage of this door - even when he is in 3 other relationships, until YOU get a brain to cut him off.
How Will You Identify Men Who Want To Waste You?
He will sleep with you but Doesn't Want A Relationship.
This type of will want wife privileges from you but will not want to take you out on a proper date or want to get to know you. This type of man will always have the audacity to ask you to meet up, just to tell you that he is not looking for a relationship at the moment, when at the same time he is reaching for your crotch?! Girl! Always leave.
You met last night but he's already "In love"
This type of man love bombs you just want to get into your deep emotional side and soften you up, get you wet, sex you up then run for the hills! If you're not the type , run.
He Always Texts Sex, Chats Sex, Calls Sex.
He always talks about sex, which positions he intends to use on you yada...yada..yada...You will think he is a sex god. he is not interested in anything else not even your second name. When these guys show you their true colors the first time, please believe them! they are only being honest!
He Will Never Take You Out
To this one, a date is always in his house, or yours. He will never take you out on a lunch date to a restaurant, he will ONLY ask you out to house party where he can conveniently bang you and drop you off.
He Disappears Then Re-appears.
After trying to get laid for a week without success, you do not see him for the next two months and BAM! out of nowhere, he shows up and continues the conversation where he left, the sex chat continues. These Casanovas do not give up, they like believing that all women are daft and will fall for it. To them you are a test, so just because he calls after a year, doesn't mean he has started liking you. Ignore him like your life depends on it!
He Never Talks About Him Or Asks About You.
This dude has never asked for your second name...what do you expect? a guy who is not interested in knowing you better won't tell you what he does for a living. He doesn't care, and you too shouldn't give a rats behind about him!
He Keeps A Safe Distance.
This guy keeps a safe distance so that you can't lean in, you can't peck him, and you can't borrow his jacket on a cold day, he is not interest in anything more than getting laid. Guys who are interest in you will try to impress you by keeping you close enough to have a shoulder to lean on. So that they can be the ones saving your day.
He's Clear He's Into FWB & NSA But Maybe If He Likes You, He Will Change
This type of a guy will not flinch telling you he is not into commitment, because his last girlfriend broke his heart. The minute a guy tells me he wants to be friends with benefits you should automatically log him out of my system. Because when a man has the guts to say this to you, he doesn't respect you, neither is he interested in ever building anything with you, and he will not start respecting you or loving you, just because your Victoria secret is wet and tight.
He will sleep with you but Doesn't Want A Relationship.
This type of will want wife privileges from you but will not want to take you out on a proper date or want to get to know you. This type of man will always have the audacity to ask you to meet up, just to tell you that he is not looking for a relationship at the moment, when at the same time he is reaching for your crotch?! Girl! Always leave.
You met last night but he's already "In love"
This type of man love bombs you just want to get into your deep emotional side and soften you up, get you wet, sex you up then run for the hills! If you're not the type , run.
He Always Texts Sex, Chats Sex, Calls Sex.
He always talks about sex, which positions he intends to use on you yada...yada..yada...You will think he is a sex god. he is not interested in anything else not even your second name. When these guys show you their true colors the first time, please believe them! they are only being honest!
He Will Never Take You Out
To this one, a date is always in his house, or yours. He will never take you out on a lunch date to a restaurant, he will ONLY ask you out to house party where he can conveniently bang you and drop you off.
He Disappears Then Re-appears.
After trying to get laid for a week without success, you do not see him for the next two months and BAM! out of nowhere, he shows up and continues the conversation where he left, the sex chat continues. These Casanovas do not give up, they like believing that all women are daft and will fall for it. To them you are a test, so just because he calls after a year, doesn't mean he has started liking you. Ignore him like your life depends on it!
He Never Talks About Him Or Asks About You.
This dude has never asked for your second name...what do you expect? a guy who is not interested in knowing you better won't tell you what he does for a living. He doesn't care, and you too shouldn't give a rats behind about him!
He Keeps A Safe Distance.
This guy keeps a safe distance so that you can't lean in, you can't peck him, and you can't borrow his jacket on a cold day, he is not interest in anything more than getting laid. Guys who are interest in you will try to impress you by keeping you close enough to have a shoulder to lean on. So that they can be the ones saving your day.
He's Clear He's Into FWB & NSA But Maybe If He Likes You, He Will Change
This type of a guy will not flinch telling you he is not into commitment, because his last girlfriend broke his heart. The minute a guy tells me he wants to be friends with benefits you should automatically log him out of my system. Because when a man has the guts to say this to you, he doesn't respect you, neither is he interested in ever building anything with you, and he will not start respecting you or loving you, just because your Victoria secret is wet and tight.
He Doesn't Communicate Unless Its About Hooking Up!
•This kind will keep you on your toes all week after promising to take you out on a date on a Wednesday, he doesn't call and in fact he remains unavailable on phone all week. Doesn't reply to your texts, but on looking at their Facebook, he's been online all day! While you keep on looking at your phone sadly waiting for him to ring,
He Asks You For A Smoking Date!
This Guy will invite you for dates that are about doing drugs, and such doesn;t come from men who see a future with you.
Sex is great, and its even better with the right person, under the right reasons.
Just imagine slippin' into the bed of a guy whom you don't know his real name, you don't know his friends, you are not even sure that the bed he's laying you on is truly his! not knowing whether you really like him...then later he drops you home, and that's it, you'll never see him or hear from him again. How bad would you feel?
Look to "sexually invest" with someone who is loyal, who is honest so that even after a year or two then a break up happens, you will be happy you met because you had a good time with them.
With Love,
©NjokiGoodBadGirl™2015
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