Cheaters, Philanderers, Woman chasers, Seductresses and the Affairs, are here to stay!
I have seen friends and friends of friends become side chicks for a very long time especially to ugly older men both resident and foreign whom they 'thought' loved them for real, that soul mate kind of love, and when the older men decide to break-up, these girls take a walk out crying with only what they're wearing, and nothing else to show from the seven year old relationship apart from an exhausted body & hopelessness.
The reality people will not accept is; no matter how much people will frown at side-chicks, the side-dish, and the "Mpango wa Kandos", all these labels, these people, are here to stay! they were there in the days of Father Abraham of the Bible and Abraham had several for himself, and men in those days would even have a hundred of the side-chicks, then known as 'concubines'. So when y'll making faces at these side affairs, remember you will have a long stressed life if you do not accept the fact that there will always be a space for them whether you like it or not...and furthermore, powerful men are rarely faithful. Take a look at our politicians for instance; Mutua governor-has a new wife, the late mutula-was claimed to have had a child after death ...a whole load of them always have several girlfriends somewhere. They like their women young.
If the guy who wants to keep you as the "Mpango Wa Kando" is not teaching you how to invest, is not teaching you how to buy stocks [with his money of course] then girl, please break up with him and start dating a guy your age and your class. With a guy your class and age, you'll be able to think along the same lines and build some life together from scratch, and you will be moving along a learning curve, plus you will enjoy the dowry payment party in the good end unlike when you're the just some secret woman.
Girls, if you really.. really.. really have to be the mistress, the kept-woman by some guy or even to some older sugar daddy, it better be one who is NOT stingy! it better be a guy who is paying for your collage education, it better be a guy who is furnishing your small house, it better be a guy paying school fees for your child too, it had better be a guy who is getting you a new house and not let you live in Huruma slums as he lives in Runda, it better be a guy who is BETTERING YOUR LIFE! else, you're just daft because the nigga doesn't like you that much if the only thing he does is have sex with you and leave you two hundred bob for your supper. He will never leave his wife for you [side chick logic you must never apply], no matter how much he raps he loves you, you're just a passing wind. Let him do something for you so that in the end, you have no or minimal regrets.
Older guys looking for sidechicks to waste time for; you better be spender if you want a loyal lady on your side, you better be ready to teach the lady how to get as rich as you are, this way she will be forever grateful to you and probaly won't ever leave your side even after you go broke! otherwise you are wasting a girl's time and energy! If you are the type of older man who would rather leave your car in town to take a motorcycle just to get to the Majengo mud shanties to your twenty five year old pretty girl-friend, shame on your ugly ass! get that girl a proper house elsewhere where you can visit with ease and where you can come in whenever you like!
A guy who is evidently "side-chicking" you, daring to just bring his big car keys and Trust condoms to your house, is an insult to you and he should not be taken seriously. Kick his disrespecting ass out! Such a guy doesn't consider you a lady enough to bring you chocolate, a watch, you know, a bottle of fine wine, a few gifts now and then just to make you feel cared for. If he doesn't, you should block him up NOW and stop talking to him because he evidently doesn't give a rats tail about you!
Wives, be easy, side chicks are not homewreckers, your husbands come on to them and represent themselves falsely as single, never married, they even say they are widowers or their wife left for the UK, do not blame the other woman, blame your man, he is not a child to be dragged into a frequent relationsex. If at all the side chicks were homewreckers, your home would be all burnt down, but is it? I hope not.
Hey Sidechicks, don't be fools, if he ain' paying up your bills, increasing you up as he uses you up, take a walk. Because as you escort him to his business meetings in Watamu, you are not getting any younger, your bank account and life situation are at a standstill. I hate it when people waste my time so should you!
A fella out to misuse your time and you know it, coz you only see him a few days a week, has got to 'invest' in you, he got to dress you and not just tell you what you should wear when you are going to Naivasha for a party with his boys. With these side affairs, one has to gain, as the other one gains your staying, it better be worthwhile. To him its fun "business" how about you? why are you not 'charging' for your time? He came to you because you serve it better than his legal woman, so he must be responsible for maintaining it. What he likes you for and thinks you serve better than his 'other' can be sex, conversation, company, intelligence, looks etc the list is endless...so know your value and gain from it.
Finally, if you go ahead and put up with some stingyass guy who wants to keep you as a secret, then you must really like the unsatisfying arrangement.
Thank Me Later!
©NjokiGoodBadGirl™2015
I have seen friends and friends of friends become side chicks for a very long time especially to ugly older men both resident and foreign whom they 'thought' loved them for real, that soul mate kind of love, and when the older men decide to break-up, these girls take a walk out crying with only what they're wearing, and nothing else to show from the seven year old relationship apart from an exhausted body & hopelessness.
The reality people will not accept is; no matter how much people will frown at side-chicks, the side-dish, and the "Mpango wa Kandos", all these labels, these people, are here to stay! they were there in the days of Father Abraham of the Bible and Abraham had several for himself, and men in those days would even have a hundred of the side-chicks, then known as 'concubines'. So when y'll making faces at these side affairs, remember you will have a long stressed life if you do not accept the fact that there will always be a space for them whether you like it or not...and furthermore, powerful men are rarely faithful. Take a look at our politicians for instance; Mutua governor-has a new wife, the late mutula-was claimed to have had a child after death ...a whole load of them always have several girlfriends somewhere. They like their women young.
If the guy who wants to keep you as the "Mpango Wa Kando" is not teaching you how to invest, is not teaching you how to buy stocks [with his money of course] then girl, please break up with him and start dating a guy your age and your class. With a guy your class and age, you'll be able to think along the same lines and build some life together from scratch, and you will be moving along a learning curve, plus you will enjoy the dowry payment party in the good end unlike when you're the just some secret woman.
Girls, if you really.. really.. really have to be the mistress, the kept-woman by some guy or even to some older sugar daddy, it better be one who is NOT stingy! it better be a guy who is paying for your collage education, it better be a guy who is furnishing your small house, it better be a guy paying school fees for your child too, it had better be a guy who is getting you a new house and not let you live in Huruma slums as he lives in Runda, it better be a guy who is BETTERING YOUR LIFE! else, you're just daft because the nigga doesn't like you that much if the only thing he does is have sex with you and leave you two hundred bob for your supper. He will never leave his wife for you [side chick logic you must never apply], no matter how much he raps he loves you, you're just a passing wind. Let him do something for you so that in the end, you have no or minimal regrets.
Older guys looking for sidechicks to waste time for; you better be spender if you want a loyal lady on your side, you better be ready to teach the lady how to get as rich as you are, this way she will be forever grateful to you and probaly won't ever leave your side even after you go broke! otherwise you are wasting a girl's time and energy! If you are the type of older man who would rather leave your car in town to take a motorcycle just to get to the Majengo mud shanties to your twenty five year old pretty girl-friend, shame on your ugly ass! get that girl a proper house elsewhere where you can visit with ease and where you can come in whenever you like!
A guy who is evidently "side-chicking" you, daring to just bring his big car keys and Trust condoms to your house, is an insult to you and he should not be taken seriously. Kick his disrespecting ass out! Such a guy doesn't consider you a lady enough to bring you chocolate, a watch, you know, a bottle of fine wine, a few gifts now and then just to make you feel cared for. If he doesn't, you should block him up NOW and stop talking to him because he evidently doesn't give a rats tail about you!
Wives, be easy, side chicks are not homewreckers, your husbands come on to them and represent themselves falsely as single, never married, they even say they are widowers or their wife left for the UK, do not blame the other woman, blame your man, he is not a child to be dragged into a frequent relationsex. If at all the side chicks were homewreckers, your home would be all burnt down, but is it? I hope not.
Hey Sidechicks, don't be fools, if he ain' paying up your bills, increasing you up as he uses you up, take a walk. Because as you escort him to his business meetings in Watamu, you are not getting any younger, your bank account and life situation are at a standstill. I hate it when people waste my time so should you!
A fella out to misuse your time and you know it, coz you only see him a few days a week, has got to 'invest' in you, he got to dress you and not just tell you what you should wear when you are going to Naivasha for a party with his boys. With these side affairs, one has to gain, as the other one gains your staying, it better be worthwhile. To him its fun "business" how about you? why are you not 'charging' for your time? He came to you because you serve it better than his legal woman, so he must be responsible for maintaining it. What he likes you for and thinks you serve better than his 'other' can be sex, conversation, company, intelligence, looks etc the list is endless...so know your value and gain from it.
Finally, if you go ahead and put up with some stingyass guy who wants to keep you as a secret, then you must really like the unsatisfying arrangement.
Thank Me Later!
©NjokiGoodBadGirl™2015
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