People have shown to tear down others to gain love, fake confidence, positions and favors. It looks ugly on you especially if you're a woman trying to get some guy to like you, it doesn't work that way, women as history has proved all the way from the days of Samson can be schemers, too bad that in today's world, women scheme against each other.
As a woman, you do not need to "warn" a man against another woman - not when she is your friend, in any case, let him find out for himself, who knows, he might just fall in love with what you hate in that girl. Minimizing another's worth, wont raise yours. Man pleasing is exhausting!
1. Thou shall not Slut Shame; do not tell men negative things about another girl, telling guys that a certain chick - who is no longer your friend is now a common whore is uncalled for, unless the guy in question is your brother, you only end up looking silly and jealous, let another girl prosper!
2. Thou shall not fight with the other woman when you find out the guy has been playing you, its not her fault, its HIS fault, he is the liar, and you two or five of you are just victims, join up and beat the hell out of that guy. Never ever fight the other woman over a cheating man!
3. Thou shall not go running to another woman's parents to tell them how bad their daughter behaves here in the city, its none of your business, mind your own. The only thing you can do is tell her when she does wrong, if she doesn't listen, its always sweeter to say "i told you so"!
4. Thou shall not, tell on your girlfriend to their boss, to gain an upper hand, it never goes well, the boss realizes how untrustworthy you are after using then dumping you for the next one. He will not say it, but he will show you how trifling you are!
5. Thou shall not let your girlfriend walk around with a green veggie on her front teeth or even lipstick just because you're afraid of how she'll react when you tell her! let her dislike you for your honesty!
6. Thou shall not leave your girl at the club all alone, just because you found a guy you liked or just because some of your old buddies showed up and decided to go to another joint. She might say its alright, but its never okay to leave her like that. Never dump your gilfriend/s for some dude!
7. Thou shall not tag your girlfriend a photo she does not like or she has not approved! even if you just want to be funny, its never funny to tag someone in a photo where they're looking all ugly just because you look good in the frame!
8. Thou shall not tell on her secrets just because you have stopped talking, its never fair, remember she knows your dirt too. Once you gossip about the issues she told you in confidence, you look stupid to those you are telling to, even though they might not tell you, they wont ever trust you enough to let you in their circle!
9. Thou shall not add a third or fourth person in drinking spree you arranged when you were just two of you or three, without the consent of the other/others. It's always a spoiler. Do not add new friends without discussing with the others first.
10. Thou shall not just let a girl walk around in town with some "big red map" of her period on her white skirt just because you do not know her, just holler at her and tell her nicely and hand her a sanitary towel, if she insults you, she is the moron, not you. "Tenda wema nenda zako"
11. Thou shall not start dating or sleeping their ex behind their back. Tell them if you really really have to go there, although its never a good idea. It makes you look like you were just waiting for the chance. Leave her ex alone, men are in plenty out here!
12. Thou shall not let the other group of girls defame/critisize your girlfriend/s, never contribute to the gossip, always defend your group or your friend in question, always defend your girl's reputation, have your girl's back always!
13. Thou shall not let her boyfriend continue playing her when you know what's going on very well, be honest. Girls are not good listeners when it comes to this matters, but tell her anyway. Its better to lose that friendship for that friendship. They'll thank you later after another heartbreak. cuz a cheater is always a cheater.
14. Thou shall not ever ever be spotted watching a man, or men humiliate another female even when you do not know her. If you cannot help physically, call the cops, call for help, just do anything but walking away! remember the saying: every dog has its day!
15. Thou shall not let your girlfriend get out of the house in an ugly dress, too much make up that makes her look scary or fugly hair, always tell them the truth, if the hot pants look ridiculous, tell them so, that's what friends are for!
16. Thou shall not let another woman's child step right in the middle of danger just because you hate his mother and you really want her to learn a lesson. Its never fair to the innocent child. I see sisters who let their sister's child suffer just because they're not talking to each other, watching as your sister's kid eat their poop cuz you can't touch to clean them, its utterly immature and wicked to do such things at the cost of a child! you shall have a child too, karma is a bad bad bitch, that i assure you!
17. Thou shall not run away from your responsibilities just because some guy left you, just because you want to have fun, if you cannot take care of your child, hire someone to do it for you, that child is growing he or she is watching; you get what you give.
18. Thou shall not throw your friendship away for a guy, when you like the same guy both of you must sit down and agree to drop him! and no one should cheat and duck back to the guy, shit always happens and someone comes back crying, these guys who run after friends know exactly what they're doing.
19. If a girl shows you her boyfriend's nooky pictures, thou shall not secretly tell the guy what you've been shown! including when she narrates the good sex she's been having, you should never run over to the guy to get laid too! This never ends well.
20. Thou shalt never ever ever dream or think of "stealing" your girlfriend's man - if he is a pencil , or even drugging him just to get laid. They will somehow get back together and you'll be left out in the cold friendless, because all the other friends won't want you either.
Girls, you do not become stronger, more beautiful, more secure by ratting on other girls. It makes you look childish, shallow, insecure, cheap, and a petty basic chick who cannot be trusted.
Be classy and graceful, always walk away from shit that can't build you!
I'm Out!
Njoki_TheGoodBadGirl ©2015
As a woman, you do not need to "warn" a man against another woman - not when she is your friend, in any case, let him find out for himself, who knows, he might just fall in love with what you hate in that girl. Minimizing another's worth, wont raise yours. Man pleasing is exhausting!
1. Thou shall not Slut Shame; do not tell men negative things about another girl, telling guys that a certain chick - who is no longer your friend is now a common whore is uncalled for, unless the guy in question is your brother, you only end up looking silly and jealous, let another girl prosper!
2. Thou shall not fight with the other woman when you find out the guy has been playing you, its not her fault, its HIS fault, he is the liar, and you two or five of you are just victims, join up and beat the hell out of that guy. Never ever fight the other woman over a cheating man!
3. Thou shall not go running to another woman's parents to tell them how bad their daughter behaves here in the city, its none of your business, mind your own. The only thing you can do is tell her when she does wrong, if she doesn't listen, its always sweeter to say "i told you so"!
4. Thou shall not, tell on your girlfriend to their boss, to gain an upper hand, it never goes well, the boss realizes how untrustworthy you are after using then dumping you for the next one. He will not say it, but he will show you how trifling you are!
5. Thou shall not let your girlfriend walk around with a green veggie on her front teeth or even lipstick just because you're afraid of how she'll react when you tell her! let her dislike you for your honesty!
6. Thou shall not leave your girl at the club all alone, just because you found a guy you liked or just because some of your old buddies showed up and decided to go to another joint. She might say its alright, but its never okay to leave her like that. Never dump your gilfriend/s for some dude!
7. Thou shall not tag your girlfriend a photo she does not like or she has not approved! even if you just want to be funny, its never funny to tag someone in a photo where they're looking all ugly just because you look good in the frame!
8. Thou shall not tell on her secrets just because you have stopped talking, its never fair, remember she knows your dirt too. Once you gossip about the issues she told you in confidence, you look stupid to those you are telling to, even though they might not tell you, they wont ever trust you enough to let you in their circle!
9. Thou shall not add a third or fourth person in drinking spree you arranged when you were just two of you or three, without the consent of the other/others. It's always a spoiler. Do not add new friends without discussing with the others first.
10. Thou shall not just let a girl walk around in town with some "big red map" of her period on her white skirt just because you do not know her, just holler at her and tell her nicely and hand her a sanitary towel, if she insults you, she is the moron, not you. "Tenda wema nenda zako"
11. Thou shall not start dating or sleeping their ex behind their back. Tell them if you really really have to go there, although its never a good idea. It makes you look like you were just waiting for the chance. Leave her ex alone, men are in plenty out here!
12. Thou shall not let the other group of girls defame/critisize your girlfriend/s, never contribute to the gossip, always defend your group or your friend in question, always defend your girl's reputation, have your girl's back always!
13. Thou shall not let her boyfriend continue playing her when you know what's going on very well, be honest. Girls are not good listeners when it comes to this matters, but tell her anyway. Its better to lose that friendship for that friendship. They'll thank you later after another heartbreak. cuz a cheater is always a cheater.
14. Thou shall not ever ever be spotted watching a man, or men humiliate another female even when you do not know her. If you cannot help physically, call the cops, call for help, just do anything but walking away! remember the saying: every dog has its day!
15. Thou shall not let your girlfriend get out of the house in an ugly dress, too much make up that makes her look scary or fugly hair, always tell them the truth, if the hot pants look ridiculous, tell them so, that's what friends are for!
16. Thou shall not let another woman's child step right in the middle of danger just because you hate his mother and you really want her to learn a lesson. Its never fair to the innocent child. I see sisters who let their sister's child suffer just because they're not talking to each other, watching as your sister's kid eat their poop cuz you can't touch to clean them, its utterly immature and wicked to do such things at the cost of a child! you shall have a child too, karma is a bad bad bitch, that i assure you!
17. Thou shall not run away from your responsibilities just because some guy left you, just because you want to have fun, if you cannot take care of your child, hire someone to do it for you, that child is growing he or she is watching; you get what you give.
18. Thou shall not throw your friendship away for a guy, when you like the same guy both of you must sit down and agree to drop him! and no one should cheat and duck back to the guy, shit always happens and someone comes back crying, these guys who run after friends know exactly what they're doing.
19. If a girl shows you her boyfriend's nooky pictures, thou shall not secretly tell the guy what you've been shown! including when she narrates the good sex she's been having, you should never run over to the guy to get laid too! This never ends well.
20. Thou shalt never ever ever dream or think of "stealing" your girlfriend's man - if he is a pencil , or even drugging him just to get laid. They will somehow get back together and you'll be left out in the cold friendless, because all the other friends won't want you either.
Girls, you do not become stronger, more beautiful, more secure by ratting on other girls. It makes you look childish, shallow, insecure, cheap, and a petty basic chick who cannot be trusted.
Be classy and graceful, always walk away from shit that can't build you!
I'm Out!
Njoki_TheGoodBadGirl ©2015
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