Who apart from a stupid waste of a man Punches a woman, a mother of his kids!? I'm pained! I do not allow shit like that in my life! I have seen violence, it won't happen to me! I always notice the psychopaths early enough, luckily!
The whole of this week I have been seeing photos on social media doing rounds, photos of some ugly dude from Papua new guinea married to a Kenyan -Meru girl Ruth Gakii, they have a three year old child and the lady is all bruised and was even hospitalized. The Nigga, she says, is beating her up because he wants the child for himself! Poor Ruth, i wish i was your friend, i always have a workable plan in mind.
I have seen friends and neighbors being beaten black and blue by their husbands and boyfriends but the women DO NOT MOVE AN INCH! Men who we end up hearing on news to have beaten their women have always done it, its never the first time, these abusive people have a trend of how they start and continue their drama, just as Ruth narrated, the guy has beaten her several times, even in-front of her mother! but like ALL the weak and scared women do, she stayed on and on and on and freaking on til now, she is all purple on her face and in the hospital, she is lucky she was not killed.
Some Retarded Logic Why Do Women Stay!...
-Because the ugly man is rich as hell! some women choose good life alongside beatings!
-Because the man he gives good D! Ooh! the sex is good, and she wont find any other!
-Because the women feel like they can change the guy if they take one more beating!
-Because the women do not want to be single again and they really want a family!
-Because the women are desperate! ANY man even if CRAZY AF is better than none!
-Because the woman believes the beating suggests and proves the mad man loves her to beats i mean to bits!
-Because the women fear that people will talk. after all she is strong,rich & beautiful. [abuse happens to anyone, in any status]
True Reasons!....
-Because the twit makes the woman feel guilty! making her feel like she deserves it!
-Because the nincompoop threatens to kill the woman and kids!
-Because the scumbag threatens to kill her whole family if she dares leave!
-Because the certified dumbass has locked the woman up in the house for a month!
-Because after the beating he honeymoons her and she forgives him, emotional games!
-Because the woman cannot admit its happening to her, she is in denial!
Signs He Is An Abuser!
• He is a psycho! with temper issues! you will always notice psychos even before you speak to them, they are never able to hide their stupid behavior, like abusing staff, punching people on the throat when they accidentally step on his converse shoes etc.
• He met you last week through a buddy and now wants to marry you! and asks you not to worry about the wedding expenses. Men with their emotions together look into knowing you better. Rush guys only want to get you and start manipulating you as quick as possible
• He is clingy as hell! he follows you everywhere, Demands that you cannot comment on other guys posts on Facebook and even DEMANDS you deactivate ALL your social media platforms!
• The brute locks you out of the world, no social media, no family members allowed to visit til he says so! and even deletes your phone-book!
• The insecure bonehead is super possessive, after your fast marriage, you become a prisoner, he wont let you speak to other guys leave alone hang out with your girlfriends!
• The jerk Humiliates and embarrasses you anyhow, even in public- in the supermarket and even in-front of your kids and family!
• The crazy bumpkin threatens you! every time you achieve something in your life, maybe a better job, he belittles your achievements and takes your salary raise as disrespecting him! the hare-brain blames you for his failures!
• The clown is a control freak, he says what you will wear and where you can not go and whom you cannot be seen speaking with and you are not allowed to go anywhere without his consent!
• The dimwit he is a drug and substance abuser, always high, and he might get it out on you! he actually will. drunkards always do.
• He brags that he is too rich, even the long arm of the law cannot reach him after he bitch slaps you! so be sure as hell he will beat you up!
If he has all the above characteristics, no matter how rich he is, no money is worth your life! He will knock your confidence down and you'll remain as weak as a worm.
Daily abuse eventually makes you get the " battered wife syndrome" a psychological comfort zone that makes you immune to the violence and you start to actually like it.
Girl, get away from that booooooshit! it's never worth it in the end.
How Do You Get Away From The Battering Man?!
I'm your girl, i will help you! •PLAN AN ESCAPE•
• Is he consistent with his abuse? Gather evidence. Place hidden cameras all over the house, someplace he cannot guess, and remember to act a fool. This will be very useful in court to put his ugly ass in jail.
• Grab every opportunity to speak to your best family members or friends, let them know what is going on, let them know you fear for your life. Keep them in the loop so that whenever you write them a "coded" text, they'll know whats up and cooking!
•Let your neighbor know that he beats you and give your best neighbor the 'signs' to note when the beating gets too bad [like breaking glasses or yelling], so that when they hear it or see it, they can call the cops. [in fact get cop friends and tell them, get their numbers and call them if you see death coming]
• Quietly get a lawyer. If he is the type that locks you in the house and only allows you to do shopping at the mall as he waits in the car, borrow a phone at the supermarket , call up a lawyer and set a quick mall meeting at the shelves corner and tell him about your situation, if you have enough evidence, hand it over, and make sure this lawyer does not know your husband.
• Lets say the guy is wealthy as hell like that Alphonse and he is not even a Kenyan, TAKE-GRAB his -I mean your money - open an account, stash the money away, transfer the cash or buy stocks or whatever, keep some cash in an unpopular micro-finance bank and hide the evidence [if you open an account where you both have a joint account, the bank manger might grass you up at a small fee]. Take ALL his filthy money, as much as you can, bit by bit till you have enough to rent a house for at least a year, pay school fees and feed you and your kids! without a flinch! a man gotta pay for his sins!
• If the dude has bought cars and land in your name, get the documents to a lawyer. Quietly. If he is the wealthy type that doesn't bother to check his property , you can sell them and buy new ones and stash them away!...don't forget to act a fool all though. make him think he is the clever one.
• When he allows you to go hang out with your kids or when he is outside the country, get a house with realtors, far off maybe at Kinoo, some place not even his friends know, only your full hundred trusted friend [1 friend!!-most friends are loud mouths!] should know, NOT ALL YOUR FRIENDS CANT BE TRUSTED!! some might be kissing your mans ass enough to rat on you about your plans! [if your parents like him enough to ask you to stay with him anyway, DO NOT tell them about your plans they will tell your crazy man!] parents who love rich in-laws cannot be trusted here!
• When he is finally at work, or at some meeting in Nigeria for three days, ESCAPE! Smoothly. Without drama, don't show neighbours that you are moving by calling Capital Movers Trucks!, no, by this time you should have got enough cash to furnish your safe house at Kinoo and start anew! Then drive out as if you're going shopping with your kids to your new peaceful house, to new neighbours who do not know what you've been through and start a brand new life. Its always safe to leave when he is not home, very safe. [just to make sure they don't rat on you, ask the househelp to prepare githeri for supper and ask your gate-man to clean the other car since you want to use later] to make them believe you'll be back!
What if he is some poor dude? Well, that makes it easier to deal with!
• If its a POOR stinkin' skank beating you up everyday, shaaaame on you! if the police won't help, call ALL your brothers and man-friends and beat his fugly ass up. Buy a Masai whip, beat him up and avenge all the hot slaps he gave you! take his money, burn his clothes, and run! far away. If you live in Kisumu, just move to Kiambu, he will never find you! He will never dare to beat a woman again! That's what hardcore angry chicks do!
Smarten up, Plan, Leave, Find Peace; peace in a bedsitter is way better than a violent, sad life in the mansion!
I'm Out!
©NjokiGoodBadGirl™2015
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