There's no sweater and safer thing as to having an intimate relationship with someone who was once your best friend because the kind friendship grows into a healthy relationship since you know each other well.
The friend-zone is that sad, lonely, grey area we all detest being kept at by people we secretly like. However, we are kept there when we are busy and quietly crushing on someone and we keep it to ourselves.
Men mostly fall into this gloomy side of the fence and most are too lame to do anything about it. When you are in the friend zone, its so bad that you are NOT considered good enough for dating leave alone a one night stand! However sometimes, the other person may not actually be interested in you as you imagine and that's why they keep you deep in the pits of the friend zone
When you are in the freaking friend zone, you are not seen as sexually attractive by the other person. You either change their mind by words or you change how they see you physically for a start.
How do you just get out of the cold friend-zone?
•Just Freaking Tell Her!
Grow some balls! Show that girl that you like her and if she doesn't get it, just tell her straight to her face, otherwise you'll go ahead and waste years of your life being nice to someone who doesn't give a damn about you, or someone who see's you as daddy she never had. Just tell her! [If you are the girl, you cannot propose a relationship to a guy, you can only positively respond to his advances if you are certain you like him back. When he asks you to go somewhere, ask him if its a date and show that you're happy that it is a date, just to hint to him that you like him back and show you're glad he has arranged a date for you!]
•Ask Her Out!
Man, If you're so afraid to tell her you like her as a lover and not as a sister to her face, ask her out on a date! tell her that there's a place you think she will like and you want to have your first date over there. If you can't speak out this words Mr. mousy, freaking text her! this information and wait for the reaction. Ladies like guys with guts, that's why the bad boys get everything, because they have cutthroat guts and they get straight to the point even though they are known jerks!
•Treat Her Like Any Other Girl You Like!
When you treat a girl you love like she is one of your sisters, she will never ever like you and she will always see you as a brother no matter how many painful gifts you buy her, This brotherly treatment goes on because you've shown her you are okay with it. If you like a girl and want to get a date, treat her like someone you want to sleep with and not like that sister-buddy you place on some [respect-careful] pedestal. When you like a girl who is in the circle of your 'best friends' , treat her like you really want it to be an intimate relationship, that's the only way a girl can notice your intention and if she likes you back, she will reciprocate it, if she doesn't, cut your loses and move on!
•Play A Little Scarce and Engaged!
Pretty girls can be smooth users. When you show a girl that you'll be stepped on, such that she can actually ask you to apply nail polish on her toes, to brush her hair, undo her old braids, to drive her to see her boyfriend and still not 'need' a favor back, if you hope to be her lover, you're doomed.
Be unavailable and very ungettable to her 80 percent of all the time she will call on you, don't always show up every time she tells you her boyfriend left her - tell her you're busy even when you're not, you can even lie that you're taking a girl you met out on a date. This way she will notice that you have a life outside hers!
Some guys act like they are some chicks gay best friends. Gay best friends [men] are the best friends a girl can have, they're always there to wipe your tears, to help you cook and shop, to help you fold your shirts, gossip etc and you comfortably let them in your bedroom without issues! So! if you're tired of her friend zoning you deep into the gay buddy area, be straight up with her and get a life! you're not an ambulance to handle her emergencies or are you?
•Make Her Go Green With Jealousy!
You can never fail when you make a woman jealous! When you really like her but she is too "alpha" female, so much that you cannot speak to her with sexual innuendos, ask her for her most beautiful friend's contacts, and tell her that you like her friend and you want to take that friend out on a romantic date and tell her you hope she will say yes! This kind of information makes us as girls realize that we are about to lose such a good guy who arranges romantic dates in the middle of the week. If a girl gives you her number straight without objecting or holding back a little, boy, she doesn't like you as you imagined!
...We girls friend-zone the guys with no balls, no nerve whatsoever, those lame guys without a backbone that want to act like they are our little brothers out to please us to get a few notes, those overly nice guys that want to act like they are our gay-best-friends [and i repeat, a gay best friend [male] is the best friend a girl can have.] There's nothing great as hearing a man declare his love, in words and in actions, but not those lame-ass actions!
Guys, you need to impress a girl you like, dress up, be attractive and change your style so good that she notices it! because your predicament may be coming from the way you dress, it might be so fugly that she doesn't like it, Try wearing a fitting suit, try be touchy when she touches you when she is LOL'ing, surprise her by touching her back romantically but gentlemanly [no ass and boob grabbing], she will be shocked by your guts! and you'll probably have changed her mind.
Wake the hell up and be that Alpha male that all girls want! a girl will want you when other girls want you as well, cuz GIRLS LOVE COMPETITION!
Thank Me Later! :)
With Love,
Njoki- TheGoodBadGirl ©2015
The friend-zone is that sad, lonely, grey area we all detest being kept at by people we secretly like. However, we are kept there when we are busy and quietly crushing on someone and we keep it to ourselves.
Men mostly fall into this gloomy side of the fence and most are too lame to do anything about it. When you are in the friend zone, its so bad that you are NOT considered good enough for dating leave alone a one night stand! However sometimes, the other person may not actually be interested in you as you imagine and that's why they keep you deep in the pits of the friend zone
When you are in the freaking friend zone, you are not seen as sexually attractive by the other person. You either change their mind by words or you change how they see you physically for a start.
How do you just get out of the cold friend-zone?
•Just Freaking Tell Her!
Grow some balls! Show that girl that you like her and if she doesn't get it, just tell her straight to her face, otherwise you'll go ahead and waste years of your life being nice to someone who doesn't give a damn about you, or someone who see's you as daddy she never had. Just tell her! [If you are the girl, you cannot propose a relationship to a guy, you can only positively respond to his advances if you are certain you like him back. When he asks you to go somewhere, ask him if its a date and show that you're happy that it is a date, just to hint to him that you like him back and show you're glad he has arranged a date for you!]
•Ask Her Out!
Man, If you're so afraid to tell her you like her as a lover and not as a sister to her face, ask her out on a date! tell her that there's a place you think she will like and you want to have your first date over there. If you can't speak out this words Mr. mousy, freaking text her! this information and wait for the reaction. Ladies like guys with guts, that's why the bad boys get everything, because they have cutthroat guts and they get straight to the point even though they are known jerks!
•Treat Her Like Any Other Girl You Like!
When you treat a girl you love like she is one of your sisters, she will never ever like you and she will always see you as a brother no matter how many painful gifts you buy her, This brotherly treatment goes on because you've shown her you are okay with it. If you like a girl and want to get a date, treat her like someone you want to sleep with and not like that sister-buddy you place on some [respect-careful] pedestal. When you like a girl who is in the circle of your 'best friends' , treat her like you really want it to be an intimate relationship, that's the only way a girl can notice your intention and if she likes you back, she will reciprocate it, if she doesn't, cut your loses and move on!
•Play A Little Scarce and Engaged!
Pretty girls can be smooth users. When you show a girl that you'll be stepped on, such that she can actually ask you to apply nail polish on her toes, to brush her hair, undo her old braids, to drive her to see her boyfriend and still not 'need' a favor back, if you hope to be her lover, you're doomed.
Be unavailable and very ungettable to her 80 percent of all the time she will call on you, don't always show up every time she tells you her boyfriend left her - tell her you're busy even when you're not, you can even lie that you're taking a girl you met out on a date. This way she will notice that you have a life outside hers!
Some guys act like they are some chicks gay best friends. Gay best friends [men] are the best friends a girl can have, they're always there to wipe your tears, to help you cook and shop, to help you fold your shirts, gossip etc and you comfortably let them in your bedroom without issues! So! if you're tired of her friend zoning you deep into the gay buddy area, be straight up with her and get a life! you're not an ambulance to handle her emergencies or are you?
•Make Her Go Green With Jealousy!
You can never fail when you make a woman jealous! When you really like her but she is too "alpha" female, so much that you cannot speak to her with sexual innuendos, ask her for her most beautiful friend's contacts, and tell her that you like her friend and you want to take that friend out on a romantic date and tell her you hope she will say yes! This kind of information makes us as girls realize that we are about to lose such a good guy who arranges romantic dates in the middle of the week. If a girl gives you her number straight without objecting or holding back a little, boy, she doesn't like you as you imagined!
...We girls friend-zone the guys with no balls, no nerve whatsoever, those lame guys without a backbone that want to act like they are our little brothers out to please us to get a few notes, those overly nice guys that want to act like they are our gay-best-friends [and i repeat, a gay best friend [male] is the best friend a girl can have.] There's nothing great as hearing a man declare his love, in words and in actions, but not those lame-ass actions!
Guys, you need to impress a girl you like, dress up, be attractive and change your style so good that she notices it! because your predicament may be coming from the way you dress, it might be so fugly that she doesn't like it, Try wearing a fitting suit, try be touchy when she touches you when she is LOL'ing, surprise her by touching her back romantically but gentlemanly [no ass and boob grabbing], she will be shocked by your guts! and you'll probably have changed her mind.
Wake the hell up and be that Alpha male that all girls want! a girl will want you when other girls want you as well, cuz GIRLS LOVE COMPETITION!
Thank Me Later! :)
With Love,
Njoki- TheGoodBadGirl ©2015
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