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Friday, October 16, 2015

That Bedroom Bully

We have to do too much nowadays as women just to please a man. just the other day, it used to be just a warm accepting smile, preparing his bath, productive conversations, a pat on the back after a job well done, faithfulness, satisfying sex, a few kids and good food. 

Now we gotta 'tongue tickle' the balls, shove a pointing finger in his ass, hand rub the freaking shaft as he drives or eats his dinner, take a dick up our virgin ass, suck the fudging tip slowly, swallow their loads, moan how he likes it and still walk vagina to the kitchen and still make him a sandwich.

Refuse to do things that do not sit right with you.

Girls, take him seriously when he confesses that his fetish is sleeping with his own sex in his future! take him very seriously when he says he is bi-sexual when you are dating and before sleeping with him, cuz you know what, he will either cheat on your ass or want to shove it in your ass to satisfy his dreams! that's how it goes! we get busy thinking these people are kidding when they are actually not kidding at all! When he tells you beat all his ex girlfriends up, you better believe you shall be in that count sooner than you think! When he calls you a bitch, that's what he sees when he looks at you! An elephant rarely changes its dung size just because it found greener pastures!

Ladies we got to make tight decisions about our own life, we don't have to let some lame ass boys tell us we won't be cool girlfriends when we refuse their ideas of great or boring sex. Its your life, you must decide what you will 'die' for! just because he says he likes it in the ass doesn't mean you must respect it! if it goes against what you deeply feel or believe in, you must respect your own gut feeling too, cuz most things start from the mind! 

Ladies you don't have to be a slave to anyone, don't let him put his dick anywhere you have a hole space on, next he will go ahead and put it in your ear hole since its tighter! its your body YOU must decide what you prefer going in where and how! coz after you please him under pressure and under the fear of him leaving-what happens next? he gon' love you forever? he gon' marry you? he'll pay for your therapist after anal sex trauma? buy you diapers before you get used to it?  has he even paid your dowry to deserve all that subserviency? does he even know your last name as on Mpesa?! Puhlleez! 

Always have it with a man who respects you, it doesn't take long to examine if some dude respects you, just listen to him, observe him , pay attention to his texts, and you will take notice of where he places you on the respect radar! Just because you give him hot sex does not warrant him to disrespect you! What does he mean he wants you ass after a year? how did he finally get all exploring? he must have tasted it elsewhere! girl, you choose who you stay with, its your vijayvay handle it with care and respect!

Hey girl, who had asked how to deal with these "anal-lizing sex" kind of silly demands from her man, follow your heart, if you cannot live with it, don't do it, if it makes you feel good go ahead and have all of  it up yo' ass! if you do not want to even try it, just tell him that you don't like it and if he gets mad at you, Dump him! 

I cannot advice much you on bedroom matters cuz we all have different likes and fetishes, take your man for example... However, if i were you, i would buy a huge hard plastic faux dick and ask him to bend over and let me shove it in his ass, if he dislikes it, well...

Love and Respect yourself first before anybody else can! 

Thank me later!

I'm out!

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