Woman On Top Position

Being the Woman on top is being independent, and it doesn't mean you can go acting like some male, when you do, you are less likely to attract a MAN. and if you do, he will be feminine and a woose. [the umama characters]

A woman somewhere in the village has 7 kids,the husband left her, she feeds her children, clothes them and educates them, takes care of the huge farm, because she is a hard worker and she made a decision to be hard-worker when she could have chosen to be a hooker for quick money . She is, A True Independent Woman.

Yeah just because you are independent, doesn't mean you should 'rear' a scrub of a man- more so if he is not married to you, and unless he married you then got broke , good deal gone bad style - he is a damn Moocher sucking you out!

Being Independent doesn't mean you have to act like an ass when a fine dude wants to date you, no, It means you got your shit together and whether a dude comes or not, your life is valid and it can run as good.

Being Independent doesn't mean you can disrespect your man. It means rightfully respecting him and crediting him where its due. Respecting him if he is truly a real man. [and if he is not, WTH are you still doing with him?]

  

Being Independent doesn't mean you can sleep with 10 guys at the same time, it means you have your morals together, maybe even your legs together- most times [when not in a relationship].

Being independent doesn't mean you have to have a Prado outside your house, or a huge business, or a huge home, no that's being Rich. Independence means living 'within' your means, feeding your kids and giving then an education and being responsible without begging the presence of a man who doesn't want to be around during the struggles.

Being Independent Doesn't Mean You CAN keep a man in your house and baby him as he bums all day, all month, all year till Christmas. No. 

Being Independent Doesn't Mean you pay all the bills in that house when that guy just pints all his money! that's slavery if not desperation, independent women don't stay in bad relationships for the show of it or for the title! No. 

Being independent means, you do not have to go round sucking dirty dicks at the street corners to get some rent paid! i know life is hard, but still, decisions matter!

Being Independent means you do not have to beg your friends to contribute for your daily meals!

Being independent means that you do not do a merry go round in your friends houses looking for somewhere to sleep all through the month.

Being independent means you can pay your bills when you don't have anybody else to share it with.

Being Independent means that you can wake up the time you feel like because you can well do as you please!

Being Independent means you have made it to the top by being smart, without everyone in the company visiting your under-skirt and tearing your underwear!

Being independent means living within your means! and not trying to fit where you are evidently struggling and suffering and really borrowing!

Being Independent means you can remove bulbs and fix them without calling electricians. It means you can unblock your sink instead of sitting there and crying.

Being Independent means you can go out there and play football with your kids without feeling an inch of shame. You don't look to impress the neighbors. 

Being an independent woman means you can eat whatever the hell you want, go wherever you feel like, without having to take a loan or conning your buddies or stealing.

Being independent means living an 'honest' life, making honest money and living well, so that you do not embarrass you children in the future when they get to hear about it. or even killing your mama with a heart attack.

Being Independent girls, means you can freaking have sex with that boyfriend when you like , and not because the lame guy is horny and you must obey so that he can pay your 2000/-  damn water bill and buy you airtime.

Being Independent means that yes love, romance and boyfriends are great, but you can well survive without them and not cry over them like a little teen.

Being Independent means you can make your own rules, live by them, without some guy coming to make you rub them off. And you can as well break them, because they're yours anyway!

Being an independent Woman Means that the ONLY thing you chase is YOUR GOALS, not some woose for attention. It means you are happy without hanging around other people and you can do without them.

Being Independent means you can make decisions without a struggle, you can tell your friends you're not going out and that gets to be that! It means you are straight up and you don't dillydally when it comes to decisions concerning your time and your life.

Being Independent, Woman, means you cannot settle for BULLSHIT, you see bullshit, you hear bullshit and you drop it like a bad habit.

 

An Independent woman is the woman on top, who loves being on top in bed as well, she takes control and enjoys her moment. She is the CEO of her life, she runs it well, and fires any 'intern' not impressing her. An Independent woman has her SHIT held Together! ©

Sincerely,
©Njoki, TheGood-BadGirl™2015