Why Did She Cheat? - for guys

Morality is corrupted within relationships in Kenya and over.

A brokenhearted guy wrote in and asked me to help him understand why his girlfriend cheated on him when he has been a good boyfriend for six years. Well, this is not new, people cheat all the time.

Women also cheat just like men do, its just that women hide it a bit better and getting caught becomes distant. The belief that women in committed unions can't cheat because of 'limited attention', bad sex and even because of the need of 'extra sex' is inexact. Males and females have equal sexual and sensual needs, and since men cheat for adventure or dissatisfying sex, women do the exact same.

REASONS WHY YOUR WOMAN IS CHEATING ON YOU

She just wanted your money.

Sometimes a woman will start a relationship with a rich-ass guy so that she can get her hands on his money and not because she is in love or truly interested in any other thing but the cash. When the cash diminishes, she's gone too, or even if the cash is still flowing, the girl will have a side guy that she loves, has a good time and sleeps with while you are there imagining your money has her all hooked. Money can't change a calculated cheater.

You are no longer nice to her.

Men say that women relax after marriage all the time, or even after getting the official girlfriend status. Men do the same thing, a guys takes a huge chill pill that he no longer brushes his teach, he throws socks everywhere, gets boring and gets verbally disrespectful. Men cease to be as nice as they were in the beginning. Guys, please realize that, there's always another guy over your head waiting for you to fail so that he can take over.

You got lots of stupid baggage!

You are that guy that has seven baby mommy's that want to kill you, someone in the estate who wants to kill you because they suspect that you're a nightly armed robber. Some upright intelligent women will not want to deal with this kind of baggage. Even if you have a baby mommy, take control of your life, provide for the kids and ensure your life doesn't cause the current woman's life with your annoying drama! No smart woman want the baby momma yelling at her front door or even at a party, just because a nigger cannot take care of his mess! If she can't deal, she walks out, and you're left there thinking she cheated, no, she moved on without letting you know.

You've got the "am not ready vibe"

Some players announce that they are not ready for serious relationship from day one. Which is a good thing because it makes a woman like me know that i wasted an hour being nice...but some lame niggers will promise to 'get ready as you go' [ women don't fall for a promise] ...A woman who knows what she wants from a relationship, will not stick around for a guy who doesn't know what he wants, these lame ass guys who will want girlfriend privileges without giving boyfriend privileges. A smart woman moves on to a serious man who wants to create a future.

You don't acknowledge her existence by introductions

You take your girl so casually that you tell your friends that she is just a close friend when she really is in love with you, a serious woman will grab a chance to be with another serious man who will value her and her time, while you hang there and think she will stick around for with your BS.

You don't gift her-we've got a thing with gifts

You've been dating since 1927 and you've never bothered to buy a 500/= worth of a wrist watch or even a scarf, dude any woman will walk out on your selfish and stingy ass. We as women feel treasured and loved when we are gifted, we take these gifts [not your money] very seriously! That's why a woman will move on to a guy who takes her out and gets her gifts, because we like gifting back as much as we are gifted. Who wants to create a life with a stingy man who will not buy a gift for his first born child?... it starts from dating.

You starved her off for affection

You no-longer kiss or hold her spontaneously as you did before. You never call her sweet names like you did before, this makes her feel left out and forgotten. Guys, you should know that with women, all women, the thick, the slim, the fat, the ugly, with ALL of them, there is always another man on the waiting room. If you don't step up. there's always a plan B waiting for us to step out of the rocky boat. We love passionate people. we love being treated as important, and we love it when our affection being duly reciprocated.

You treat her like she is stupid

Some men who think are smart treat all women inconsiderable and base like children. Smart women do not take being treated as if dumb lightly. If you want to deal with dumb-ass women, date a real dumb ass woman and not try to serve an intelligent woman like a small child. Like when you lie through your teeth right on to woman's face like she cannot decipher a thing.

She got bored!

When you've been dating her from class six back in primary school, through high-school and while you're both in different colleges, and you still feel you'll be on the same page after all these years, oh boy! tastes change, a woman learns existence of other than the usual you males out there, she likes them and desires a taste of the outside world. So by the time you both get jobs and you want to settle, she settles with you out of pity that you've stuck around for so long. She gets bored and seeks adventures through cheating. A woman may not like a certain quality like she did back in high-school, a man may not like your new character either. Always keenly re-evaluate such lengthy relationships as they lead to huge disappointments as people grow change overtime. 

She doesn't like you anymore and wants to break up

When you have bullshitted a woman for three long years, and she forgave you all that time and you will not bother to change your bad behavior, it comes to a time that a woman cheats so that she can step out of the relationship which has already bored her to tears. She cheats , and makes sure you get to know so that she can get rid of you in the most hurtful way.

She thinks you are cheating too

Cheaters are always paranoid that they are being cheated on. A cheating woman will cheat on you because she thinks you've been cheating too just because you got real quiet when you came come all stressed and did not want to talk much, have dinner or even make love. [which she interpreted as sexual activity exhaustion]. Cheaters get jealous and insecure that you may be cheating, and that alone drives them to cheat counting it as payback.

Last but not least, your woman is just adDICKted! and must have three different Johns at a go its in her and there's nothing you or the cathedral exorcist can do, she is just doomed into slut-dom and that's it.

Guys, if she cheats, maybe its your fault or maybe its her hobby.

Your Girl,

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