Why do people tolerate so much disrespect and foolery when they have lots of options in the name of love & relationship?
Why do educated women put up with so much bullshit and still at the end of it all not learn a friggin' thing from it!? do these women just get comfort from playing doormat?
Women especially pretty women must be suffering low self esteem and from security issues since they stand most of this kind crap! they even translate a slap for proof of love! OMG!
I have watched a video of two morons, Kawira 22 and John Wachira 30, from Langata Nairobi. Kawira is beaten - which comes to blood spilling while she is pregnant, she is thrown out and the moron still goes back and gets beaten again, she has been helped by neighbors to take the matter to the police, but she refuses all that help and causes the cases to be dismissed. How do we even deal with this kind of inanity?!
In this time and age, I think women who are still standing abusive men are just playing dumb! You'll see a woman who has been kicked out by the guy forcefully returning to the same house only to get beaten again. Its over ladies, women are seeming to like playing victim so that they can elicit sympathy from the onlookers unfortunately some of these pretty ladies are dying from this violence they had all the time to escape!
These women give various excuses for standing this form of stupidity; from staying for the kids, to they don't have money, to they are praying for the man to change...BS! If at all you believe that your God will change your beastly man, why not believe that the same God will provide for you and your kids when you move?!!! The Pity Party Is Over! when you realize a certain rabid dog waylays people at a certain street, you do not pass that hell of a street again, think of that violent man as that rabid dog and make a damned move!
Women who are standing violent relationships do not need any more pity, or sympathy, they need a very good slap from their parents or sibling! UNLESS they are victims of being locked up in some room and under torture!
All these young women are grown ups who can make a decision to move out, women who are experiencing abuse should report, move out, or seek help. But these women do not want to leave rich husbands! Big houses! Daily allowances! etc...SMH!
How does a man kick you out, beat you black and purple, and you still get your black ass, black eyed face back to the same house? is this not utter doltishness?! When a man asks you to leave, just leave! Women are waiting until their faces are fried, their teeth broken, if not killed, to start crying how they wish they left earlier!
Its not a requirement for everyone to get a husband to get a pass to heaven, that's why God gave us that as an option! ...We are not in a competition of who has a husband and who doesn't, you don't have to struggle to keep a wife beater on your side just to be 'recognized' as married! This is bullshit! and women standing this are as stupid as those cowards beating and killing them! This is the same thing as one eating their own vomit! it hurt you once, it will hurt you gain!
Why are people scared to make a move, to survive alone! Those who go with the excuse that they cannot provide for the children if they left PLEASE!! give us a dang break! How many widows and single mothers have survived bringing up kids on their own! Don't be lazy! get out of that stupid hole and go work your ass off to provide for your kids!!
Please Check Your Self!....
•Remember that its not your fault to have met a bad egg, we all do meet psychos, the difference is 'when' we choose to step out of the bullshit!
•Don't begin enjoying being a punching bag!
•Leave at the first sign of abuse!
•Having 10 children with a violent guy won't make him stop beating you or love you!
•You should not be embarrassed to admit its happening to you! life is too short!
•Talk to someone else about it! take a chance to seek help!
•If you're NOT under chains, lock and key, get the hell out!
•You can NOT fix a violent man into seeing your value! ever!
•Do not let the 'I love you' verbatim trick you into staying!
•You cannot love an animal that bites so much that it quits biting!
•When he throws you out, leave, just leave! and don't look back!
•Just because that one man is violent, not every other man is violent out here, you WILL find love even with two kids!
Do women realize that they are affecting the same children they are trying to 'provide' for by standing violence, by letting them see daddy hit them around, by exposing them to violence? These kids either become abusers themselves, or they grow up to stand violence like mommy did! Women please pull the pity foolishness aside and live a peaceful responsible life even if alone! Do not show your kids that its okay to be demeaned and humiliated!
What the hell is wrong with people! Do not be where you are not wanted!
Do not find yourself needing to be with someone so badly that you put up with all their nonsense!
Domestic violence only gets WORSE! so please! do not focus your energy into imagining you can stand the punches long enough for him to see you're a keeper, don't be stupid!
Remember when you get out of a Domestic Violent Relationship, you are no longer a victim, you become a Survivor! your children's hero!
Yo' Girl!
©NjokiGoodBadGirl™2016
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