Apparently people with the least to offer have the most and the craziest demands! These narcissistic people feel some superiority they do not even possess!
Look at men for instance; A man with a pot belly sitting from here to Mt. Elgon demands that the woman must have a flat tummy, and should be a skinny picky eater to save on food and make sure she remains looking like a model with 24inch waist even after four kids and a couple of verbal and emotional abuse. OKAY!... While a woman without a job, who has never touched any truly hard earned paycheck gets busy demanding the man she will have a relationship with must have a six figure job, a house, domestic workers and must have three range rovers in the compound who should be same age as her. People, spare us! you have no right to complain on nor demand things you cannot offer the other person, and more when you can't compromise by shutting up, or even balance it some other way.
You cannot afford to be a parrot at home, making the most noise, being quarrelsome for the man who worked the whole day as you laid about at home and watched Afro-cinema...and you cannot be the guy that has no job but waits for your woman to get home at 10PM to start cooking for you after she has breastfed your baby every day, while what you did the whole day was play games on her home PC and eat her food remainders.
Young men who have impregnated the whole village, from Murang'a to Kakamega, and run away from child supporting responsibilities, stand there with their noses up the air bleeding shamelessness demanding how much they must marry a virgin and or a woman who has never given birth! where will the girls that you damaged and run for the hills go to?!
Young women yell from the hill tops how much their boyfriend to be must be intelligent and witty, when themselves cannot tell whether Eritrea is really a country in Africa or not, when they cannot sit still to even read a newspaper to know whats going on in the city. While others with three kids from different men, make demands that the only man that will marry them, is the man who has no baby mamas, has no children and is very responsible, and they will ignore an interested single dad and actually insult him for trying.
Women have vagina's. Some men have money. To some, that is all they need to bring to the table no matter how bad their grade was back in college, no matter how bad they have failed in every angle of life, and unfortunately or fortunately for some of these women, most men are thirsty enough to settle for just that, a vagina and a smashing body...they get married and cheat from the after wedding day because life's satisfaction is not transmitted via sex. There's more to a partner than the physical.
Sadly, men with good morals, respectable, well behaved, clean...but unemployed or under employed or even maybe with low income get nowhere with women, and if they do, the hyena-like women by the road-side just grab all the savings and leave the naive guy high and dry! Same case with good women who have been in bad and broken relationships that left them scarred, the men with unknown number of children in every city reject these ladies escaping baggage, while they themselves have baggage tagging along.
Well, its not evil to yearn to get to higher heights than one has, but we must also look at what we are bringing on the table too...if you think your demands are as crap as above, slowly sit down and curl your tail.
Don't allow yourself to be short changed. Life is short.
If anything;
Stick to your lanes, to what you can afford!
If you feel trapped, get out!
When the respect, the love, the understanding, the trust is not mutual...someone is being shortchanged or y'all playing games!
She wants a 6 ft man, with a 6 figure salary who has 6 pack, while she has a belly all the way to 4o inches wide and standing at 3 feet...such like people end up waiting for too long to get partners who fit that crazy checklist, since what they have cannot even match up with people whom they think deserve them, same case with men who want a rich, hardworking, highly educated woman, who is 100% subservient/submissive, that will rarely happen! Educated women can never play subservient to any man, it takes a special case, so y'all got to get serious with what you have on your checklist as a dream life partner! Instead of waiting for one, make one.
The reality is that these days, the ones in the 10th level of their social class get their own 10's because most times only their own type can take all the arrogance where there is, the 6's get 6's! it is in rare cases that you will meet a woman in 10th class with a man who is down in 6th level. Most men however take women who are low in the social class, they don't ask as much as women do most of the time since serious men do not look for women to provide for them, but they look to be providers and they therefore look more into physical attractiveness.
Again, you cannot afford a nasty attitude and still demand a caring, understanding, listening, compassionate, empathetic partner! A partner who according to your own judgement is in your dating chain! even the gods won't accept that!
You don't marry the physical and material characteristics, you marry the person with the characters. The height of a man or the thinness of a woman doesn't really help if you think about it with an open mind.
If it drains you, its definitely a sucker vampire!
Yo' Girl,
©NjokiGoodBadGirl™2016
Look at men for instance; A man with a pot belly sitting from here to Mt. Elgon demands that the woman must have a flat tummy, and should be a skinny picky eater to save on food and make sure she remains looking like a model with 24inch waist even after four kids and a couple of verbal and emotional abuse. OKAY!... While a woman without a job, who has never touched any truly hard earned paycheck gets busy demanding the man she will have a relationship with must have a six figure job, a house, domestic workers and must have three range rovers in the compound who should be same age as her. People, spare us! you have no right to complain on nor demand things you cannot offer the other person, and more when you can't compromise by shutting up, or even balance it some other way.
You cannot afford to be a parrot at home, making the most noise, being quarrelsome for the man who worked the whole day as you laid about at home and watched Afro-cinema...and you cannot be the guy that has no job but waits for your woman to get home at 10PM to start cooking for you after she has breastfed your baby every day, while what you did the whole day was play games on her home PC and eat her food remainders.
Young men who have impregnated the whole village, from Murang'a to Kakamega, and run away from child supporting responsibilities, stand there with their noses up the air bleeding shamelessness demanding how much they must marry a virgin and or a woman who has never given birth! where will the girls that you damaged and run for the hills go to?!
Young women yell from the hill tops how much their boyfriend to be must be intelligent and witty, when themselves cannot tell whether Eritrea is really a country in Africa or not, when they cannot sit still to even read a newspaper to know whats going on in the city. While others with three kids from different men, make demands that the only man that will marry them, is the man who has no baby mamas, has no children and is very responsible, and they will ignore an interested single dad and actually insult him for trying.
Women have vagina's. Some men have money. To some, that is all they need to bring to the table no matter how bad their grade was back in college, no matter how bad they have failed in every angle of life, and unfortunately or fortunately for some of these women, most men are thirsty enough to settle for just that, a vagina and a smashing body...they get married and cheat from the after wedding day because life's satisfaction is not transmitted via sex. There's more to a partner than the physical.
Sadly, men with good morals, respectable, well behaved, clean...but unemployed or under employed or even maybe with low income get nowhere with women, and if they do, the hyena-like women by the road-side just grab all the savings and leave the naive guy high and dry! Same case with good women who have been in bad and broken relationships that left them scarred, the men with unknown number of children in every city reject these ladies escaping baggage, while they themselves have baggage tagging along.
Well, its not evil to yearn to get to higher heights than one has, but we must also look at what we are bringing on the table too...if you think your demands are as crap as above, slowly sit down and curl your tail.
Don't allow yourself to be short changed. Life is short.
If anything;
Stick to your lanes, to what you can afford!
If you feel trapped, get out!
When the respect, the love, the understanding, the trust is not mutual...someone is being shortchanged or y'all playing games!
She wants a 6 ft man, with a 6 figure salary who has 6 pack, while she has a belly all the way to 4o inches wide and standing at 3 feet...such like people end up waiting for too long to get partners who fit that crazy checklist, since what they have cannot even match up with people whom they think deserve them, same case with men who want a rich, hardworking, highly educated woman, who is 100% subservient/submissive, that will rarely happen! Educated women can never play subservient to any man, it takes a special case, so y'all got to get serious with what you have on your checklist as a dream life partner! Instead of waiting for one, make one.
The reality is that these days, the ones in the 10th level of their social class get their own 10's because most times only their own type can take all the arrogance where there is, the 6's get 6's! it is in rare cases that you will meet a woman in 10th class with a man who is down in 6th level. Most men however take women who are low in the social class, they don't ask as much as women do most of the time since serious men do not look for women to provide for them, but they look to be providers and they therefore look more into physical attractiveness.
Again, you cannot afford a nasty attitude and still demand a caring, understanding, listening, compassionate, empathetic partner! A partner who according to your own judgement is in your dating chain! even the gods won't accept that!
You don't marry the physical and material characteristics, you marry the person with the characters. The height of a man or the thinness of a woman doesn't really help if you think about it with an open mind.
If it drains you, its definitely a sucker vampire!
Yo' Girl,
©NjokiGoodBadGirl™2016
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