"A grown woman who doesn't know - and own her own body, doesn't know her likes and dislikes is like a newborn kitten which doesn't know if minced cooked meat smells better than a dead rat , while the one who knows herself -eyes closed, comes out as a tigress- straight to the game." NjokiC.
It's not only about pleasure, but about self awareness and self acceptance of your whole 'vehicle'. Men being the selected providers by nature and by the gods of the lands, especially the African gods, women are automatically the receivers and assistants or easier, helpers. You must help him find you , Impress, Satisfy You. When you appreciate your own self, you love your very soul and you wont have the time to envy other people's bodies, that you undoubtedly cannot possess even under witchcraft.
Being a full grown woman you must know what you want from your man. You must know when, how and where IT feels good, so explore thyself. If you do not have an idea of what feels good to you, how do you expect any other person out here to help you feel good? On the other side, you must be able to complete thyself and make sure you can come to glory alone, cuz if you cant make YOU happy at least, who will? No one wants a depressed character in their shelter, a cry baby, no one want to be your psychiatrist or doctor, people want to make each other happy and not try sorting out your confusion and baggage from the past.
See, you cannot know or discover your 'body french language' when you never explore it, you can never know how to unleash your sexy, your seductive body style, when you don't even care to know about it and wait for some other person to come 'show you'. How do you imagine to be discovered by the one you love if you haven't 'discovered' yourself little lady? Know what makes you wild and how to get it out and where that guy can get it from - inside of you. You have to know your own body secrets and mind for the 'freaky you' to come out natural and without trying too hard. When you are sexually-emotionally intelligent, you wont waste time on dodo guys who cannot satisfy you wholly, you only keep the special person whom your body communicates with without saying a single word...
A fairytale or a Mexico soaps romance ideas wont work if its not envisioned in your mind then action-ed physically, it comes from the deep, you must perceive it first. To be ideal to the other person, you have to be ideal to yourself first. To be good in all this, and not only good, but impeccably great, you must posses some goddess self control and self love. The art of intelligently keeping 'em in your arms without them letting you go and without coming out desperate.
Let no one kid you, every partner including you and all the others like clarity, we all like knowing we are doing the right thing and not just touching, shoving fingers in and stroking anyhow, and if you can tell them where to kiss you, where to touch you, where to spank you - you make life hell lot easier for everybody in this helluva lazy world of today.
Discover thyself; do you imagine dying or becoming too old without ever knowing whether your G-spot actually exists or not. without knowing exactly where your pee comes from? without knowing exactly where a baby pops from , that is, in case you did not study Biology...? The chances of some guy helping you discover your hotspots are 0.05% - they don't even have time for that, you have to discover them yourself, otherwise this game will be only for himself and you will just be the 'means'
Being a full grown woman you must know what you want from your man. You must know when, how and where IT feels good, so explore thyself. If you do not have an idea of what feels good to you, how do you expect any other person out here to help you feel good? On the other side, you must be able to complete thyself and make sure you can come to glory alone, cuz if you cant make YOU happy at least, who will? No one wants a depressed character in their shelter, a cry baby, no one want to be your psychiatrist or doctor, people want to make each other happy and not try sorting out your confusion and baggage from the past.
See, you cannot know or discover your 'body french language' when you never explore it, you can never know how to unleash your sexy, your seductive body style, when you don't even care to know about it and wait for some other person to come 'show you'. How do you imagine to be discovered by the one you love if you haven't 'discovered' yourself little lady? Know what makes you wild and how to get it out and where that guy can get it from - inside of you. You have to know your own body secrets and mind for the 'freaky you' to come out natural and without trying too hard. When you are sexually-emotionally intelligent, you wont waste time on dodo guys who cannot satisfy you wholly, you only keep the special person whom your body communicates with without saying a single word...
A fairytale or a Mexico soaps romance ideas wont work if its not envisioned in your mind then action-ed physically, it comes from the deep, you must perceive it first. To be ideal to the other person, you have to be ideal to yourself first. To be good in all this, and not only good, but impeccably great, you must posses some goddess self control and self love. The art of intelligently keeping 'em in your arms without them letting you go and without coming out desperate.
Let no one kid you, every partner including you and all the others like clarity, we all like knowing we are doing the right thing and not just touching, shoving fingers in and stroking anyhow, and if you can tell them where to kiss you, where to touch you, where to spank you - you make life hell lot easier for everybody in this helluva lazy world of today.
Discover thyself; do you imagine dying or becoming too old without ever knowing whether your G-spot actually exists or not. without knowing exactly where your pee comes from? without knowing exactly where a baby pops from , that is, in case you did not study Biology...? The chances of some guy helping you discover your hotspots are 0.05% - they don't even have time for that, you have to discover them yourself, otherwise this game will be only for himself and you will just be the 'means'
In fact very few of us - as a gynae will tell you, can actually reach inside our vijayjay to do the ovulation test, very few even go the pap smear test- many use kits since they are not 'comfortable' with their own God given bodies. Only a handful of women can dare stand stack naked in-front of their men, because they are too UNCOMFORTABLE in their bodies. Discovering and then accepting yourself takes guts, takes time and takes an open mind.
Last but not least, there's only one person that you can have a Till Death Do You Part Kind of relationship, and that is YOU. When you're ashamed of your body...you'll feel stagnant in everything. You wont even let anybody else love it. Love your body to identify most of yourself.
Femaleness Champion.
Njoki TheGood-BadGirl.
i love new borns,i make an effort of talking to toddlers as soon as they can speak.And i ask all of them the same question,whether they saw a spot marked G on their way out of the vajayjay.Not even a single one can answer me,so ladies explore yourself and the next time we meet point in the right direction.WORD
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