On a very serious note, apparently, women in Kenya don't like being powerful or being BOSS or CEO-ing themselves up! Just a few hours ago, i came up with the idea of females getting the 'female condoms' just to be in charge of their sex lives, but 100% of them - from the long Facebook discussion - are not up for it or ready to give it a shot at least. They have never seen it with their own eyes, but they claim its noisy! yeah right lets see how noisy a yeast infection will be!
African women are naturally made 'home leaders' and 'home makers' a village woman with a small baby will toil in the shamba for eight solid hours! and still come home to pamper her husband and five kids- that man will have sex with her till she gets pregnant again when the smallest child is barely six months! If we are to be leaders we have to lead from all angles, tell a man to wait up till you're set, and not just getting in like you're a motel.
It would be such a turn on - to your guy, and power to you- if you as the woman initiated sex today, put your latex pouch on on as he watches and ask him to ride or die with it - your way or he can take a hike- I'm sure he would never complain if you did it half the time. Men love it when women initiate sex, they feel a woman is crazy for them-they feel desired-they feel trusted- when she takes the lead in the bedroom, and not just lying there like a log every-time. Women should stop acting as if they don't get horny, as if its the men who only want to get sexed up, we are worse off because ours is brought naturally by hormones, weeks before Mps and after are maddening when sexual activity is not available. So, women you have good enough chances to initiate and practice being the boss in bed - with your female condoms beside you!
Woman, the body is yours, you should be the one dictating when and how you want to get laid by that guy. Not letting a guy get his dirty D in you without your full hundred consent. Lady, get a female condom and when he comes popping that D up on you claiming how he forgot to buy that rubber, ask him to take a chill pill and give you a few seconds to wear your WOMAN condom!
When you are unable to tell a guy to stop it, that you don't want sex, that you DON'T want it up in your ass, that you don't want it down your throat, then you are with the WRONG fella in bed. A real man should respect your decision without question [although he's allowed to beg] he MUST not force it, not in your vijayjay or your ass or between your teeth! - if he does, consider it as rape [and we have a law in place- sue the thug! i.e if you kept your evidence-if at all you watch CSI] - at least i do.
The female condoms as i found out are not readily available yet because of low demand,and they will be once WE the WOMEN, DEMAND that the government must bring that latex down to us and serially sensitize it like they do with the male condoms, almost begging them to use and actually asking us to buy the male condoms to convince these dudes to wear them! I did some field work at a few chemists along Ngong rd and surrounding roads- trying to personally purchase the female condoms for my use- all head high, without flinching, some chemist guys were just laughing behind my back - trust me i wasn't laughing at all, i had my serious face on like my life depended on it.
I am not certain how you see things, but i think it would be totally 'sexciting' to try out using a Female condom with your man, if at all you do have fun with your man and laugh about stuff, this will be fun to try out - since people are just dissing its use without any experience. I read the female condom is actually much better in STDs and pregnancy prevention than the male condoms, so evidently, females are just refusing to take the mantle and be the bosses of their own private parts!
When you are a grown ass woman who loves herself, who respects herself, you can never afford to be embarrassed or uncomfortable to have your own kind of protection! am i speaking to someone here? be empowered, feel and act like a superwoman!
Take Charge Or Be Charged Girl - You Cant Act Like Flip-flops And Expect Stiletto Treatment!
PS. And whats up with y'all women, some of you be helping a guy to wear that condom and you wont 'help' wear yours?
Cheers!
Njoki, TheGood-BadGirl
African women are naturally made 'home leaders' and 'home makers' a village woman with a small baby will toil in the shamba for eight solid hours! and still come home to pamper her husband and five kids- that man will have sex with her till she gets pregnant again when the smallest child is barely six months! If we are to be leaders we have to lead from all angles, tell a man to wait up till you're set, and not just getting in like you're a motel.
It would be such a turn on - to your guy, and power to you- if you as the woman initiated sex today, put your latex pouch on on as he watches and ask him to ride or die with it - your way or he can take a hike- I'm sure he would never complain if you did it half the time. Men love it when women initiate sex, they feel a woman is crazy for them-they feel desired-they feel trusted- when she takes the lead in the bedroom, and not just lying there like a log every-time. Women should stop acting as if they don't get horny, as if its the men who only want to get sexed up, we are worse off because ours is brought naturally by hormones, weeks before Mps and after are maddening when sexual activity is not available. So, women you have good enough chances to initiate and practice being the boss in bed - with your female condoms beside you!
Woman, the body is yours, you should be the one dictating when and how you want to get laid by that guy. Not letting a guy get his dirty D in you without your full hundred consent. Lady, get a female condom and when he comes popping that D up on you claiming how he forgot to buy that rubber, ask him to take a chill pill and give you a few seconds to wear your WOMAN condom!
When you are unable to tell a guy to stop it, that you don't want sex, that you DON'T want it up in your ass, that you don't want it down your throat, then you are with the WRONG fella in bed. A real man should respect your decision without question [although he's allowed to beg] he MUST not force it, not in your vijayjay or your ass or between your teeth! - if he does, consider it as rape [and we have a law in place- sue the thug! i.e if you kept your evidence-if at all you watch CSI] - at least i do.
The female condoms as i found out are not readily available yet because of low demand,and they will be once WE the WOMEN, DEMAND that the government must bring that latex down to us and serially sensitize it like they do with the male condoms, almost begging them to use and actually asking us to buy the male condoms to convince these dudes to wear them! I did some field work at a few chemists along Ngong rd and surrounding roads- trying to personally purchase the female condoms for my use- all head high, without flinching, some chemist guys were just laughing behind my back - trust me i wasn't laughing at all, i had my serious face on like my life depended on it.
I am not certain how you see things, but i think it would be totally 'sexciting' to try out using a Female condom with your man, if at all you do have fun with your man and laugh about stuff, this will be fun to try out - since people are just dissing its use without any experience. I read the female condom is actually much better in STDs and pregnancy prevention than the male condoms, so evidently, females are just refusing to take the mantle and be the bosses of their own private parts!
When you are a grown ass woman who loves herself, who respects herself, you can never afford to be embarrassed or uncomfortable to have your own kind of protection! am i speaking to someone here? be empowered, feel and act like a superwoman!
Take Charge Or Be Charged Girl - You Cant Act Like Flip-flops And Expect Stiletto Treatment!
PS. And whats up with y'all women, some of you be helping a guy to wear that condom and you wont 'help' wear yours?
Cheers!
Njoki, TheGood-BadGirl
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