Beauty as they said, lies in the eye of the beholder. You may not think you are hot but, "they" might. Ever been surprised when you find a beautiful women sociable and not actually a snob as forethought? Yeah right, its because you are 'judgy' and you judged her.
Beautiful people have physical issues too, but people out here do not understand that. A woman may be excruciatingly HOT but she gets the hardest time when trying to date or trying to get a man or even as final as a husband. Just like all the hullabaloo about the beauty queen who married a rich governor in Nigeria this girl for all i care, she is honest, maybe she tried to love younger guys but they were unavailable, insincere, and untrustworthy.
The benefits beautifully attractive people will get equals the hard time they get in social life. If you are honest to yourself, and you know you are beautiful and hot, then you know just how much crucifixion happens out there, the stereotyping, and how desperate it can get - wanting people to see the real you but they just hang on your physical elements. We all know that men between 24-35 play a lot of games, and they are never ready to settle down to make a home, and that's why many of us - women will go out with married men and single guys who are forty five years since the guys who are 30 do not give a damn about making a relationship work with beautiful women.
Everybody assumes that pretty, attractive people have an easy time getting a partner, but its a wrong assumption, attractive persons -women- have the hardest time since men tend to see beautiful women are "blond" "bitchy" "drama queens" or "stupid" and do not believe they can ever make faithful-trustworthy girlfriends or wives or even proper mothers to their children. Men assume just because you are pretty and at the club to have a little fun, you are looking to get laid. Men will feel that just because you are pretty, you are only good rolling in bed - and will use and dump you just when you thought things were going well.
Being beautiful and too beautiful sometimes comes as a barrelful of a curse. Its when you're beautiful that you'll attract players, you'll attract creepy people who will even stalk you as you go home, you'll have too much meaningless attention! people wont take you seriously, You'll be stalked by grown ass women who are hallucinating that you are sleeping with their tired husbands, these women will even knock on your door to let you know that their eyes are on you and tell you never let to don a mini skirt lest heir husbands gets sexually attracted!
People LOVE to assume that cute people are chronically stupid. I was once an active runway model and not once or twice did i meet people who came up with fraudulent-deceitful "business" proposals for me, and thank God, i had my head together and the fast life never swayed my thinking, hard drugs are too available and its no problem sinking with that ship. When you are a model, since you're all skinny and naive looking, these people will lie they have a crazily well paying job- and when you go to "sign up" for the "job" its either you are being cheated into paying for a photo-shoot, or its porn acting they called you for, or the "online modeling" that is usually stripping and masturbating for old foreigners on the internet - which pays well by the way, if your morals do not affect your actions. This is partly why i quit all the modeling life and tried to settle for office jobs where i can be taken seriously. I love being taken seriously since i got no time to play games!
Believe me, beautiful hot ladies have a hard time, they are usually depressed and alone, strangers will call them whores just because they worked so hard to buy a car, just because they have a child out of wedlock that is attending an expensive private school, most hot single mothers are usually sad and closely lonely whether they are rich or otherwise, just look at Whitney Houston, look at her daughter, and look at some of the most popular single and hot women around, they are mostly un-married even at 37, while on the outside they play all happy for the camera.
Most people assume that beautiful-attractive-hot women are perfect and have perfect lives which is not true, beauty is burdening. Just look at all the people who were considered as "less attractive" back in college or high school...they are all happily married while the rest of us are still in the dating pool with fools - mostly. Instead of playing games, some of us just choose to keep un-attached. The possible partners who are your age feel you are too cute to be a housewife, to be "kept" - because your beauty will make men drool over you every time and all the attention from all the estate guys will make you trip, thus cannot trust that you can hold off.
What most ya'll need to recognize is that the beauty charms do not come with perfection; the perfect judgement, perfect personality, perfect selection, perfect mind or even perfect life...it can be annoying to be too good looking, for instance; for a guy you deeply like, he might feel so intimidated by you to even look at you leave alone saying 'hi' leaving only weirdos to stalk you up because they think pretty people' get scared easily. Next time don't ask why painfully pretty 24-33 year old girls are marrying 45-50year olds - like that Nigerian beauty queen and others like that Kenyan gospel singer-instead of getting their own age mates. The older guys know how to listen and take care of their women and they wont update every problem that happens on Facebook.
Cheers!
Njoki TheGood-Badgirl
Beautiful people have physical issues too, but people out here do not understand that. A woman may be excruciatingly HOT but she gets the hardest time when trying to date or trying to get a man or even as final as a husband. Just like all the hullabaloo about the beauty queen who married a rich governor in Nigeria this girl for all i care, she is honest, maybe she tried to love younger guys but they were unavailable, insincere, and untrustworthy.
The benefits beautifully attractive people will get equals the hard time they get in social life. If you are honest to yourself, and you know you are beautiful and hot, then you know just how much crucifixion happens out there, the stereotyping, and how desperate it can get - wanting people to see the real you but they just hang on your physical elements. We all know that men between 24-35 play a lot of games, and they are never ready to settle down to make a home, and that's why many of us - women will go out with married men and single guys who are forty five years since the guys who are 30 do not give a damn about making a relationship work with beautiful women.
Everybody assumes that pretty, attractive people have an easy time getting a partner, but its a wrong assumption, attractive persons -women- have the hardest time since men tend to see beautiful women are "blond" "bitchy" "drama queens" or "stupid" and do not believe they can ever make faithful-trustworthy girlfriends or wives or even proper mothers to their children. Men assume just because you are pretty and at the club to have a little fun, you are looking to get laid. Men will feel that just because you are pretty, you are only good rolling in bed - and will use and dump you just when you thought things were going well.
Being beautiful and too beautiful sometimes comes as a barrelful of a curse. Its when you're beautiful that you'll attract players, you'll attract creepy people who will even stalk you as you go home, you'll have too much meaningless attention! people wont take you seriously, You'll be stalked by grown ass women who are hallucinating that you are sleeping with their tired husbands, these women will even knock on your door to let you know that their eyes are on you and tell you never let to don a mini skirt lest heir husbands gets sexually attracted!
People LOVE to assume that cute people are chronically stupid. I was once an active runway model and not once or twice did i meet people who came up with fraudulent-deceitful "business" proposals for me, and thank God, i had my head together and the fast life never swayed my thinking, hard drugs are too available and its no problem sinking with that ship. When you are a model, since you're all skinny and naive looking, these people will lie they have a crazily well paying job- and when you go to "sign up" for the "job" its either you are being cheated into paying for a photo-shoot, or its porn acting they called you for, or the "online modeling" that is usually stripping and masturbating for old foreigners on the internet - which pays well by the way, if your morals do not affect your actions. This is partly why i quit all the modeling life and tried to settle for office jobs where i can be taken seriously. I love being taken seriously since i got no time to play games!
Believe me, beautiful hot ladies have a hard time, they are usually depressed and alone, strangers will call them whores just because they worked so hard to buy a car, just because they have a child out of wedlock that is attending an expensive private school, most hot single mothers are usually sad and closely lonely whether they are rich or otherwise, just look at Whitney Houston, look at her daughter, and look at some of the most popular single and hot women around, they are mostly un-married even at 37, while on the outside they play all happy for the camera.
Most people assume that beautiful-attractive-hot women are perfect and have perfect lives which is not true, beauty is burdening. Just look at all the people who were considered as "less attractive" back in college or high school...they are all happily married while the rest of us are still in the dating pool with fools - mostly. Instead of playing games, some of us just choose to keep un-attached. The possible partners who are your age feel you are too cute to be a housewife, to be "kept" - because your beauty will make men drool over you every time and all the attention from all the estate guys will make you trip, thus cannot trust that you can hold off.
What most ya'll need to recognize is that the beauty charms do not come with perfection; the perfect judgement, perfect personality, perfect selection, perfect mind or even perfect life...it can be annoying to be too good looking, for instance; for a guy you deeply like, he might feel so intimidated by you to even look at you leave alone saying 'hi' leaving only weirdos to stalk you up because they think pretty people' get scared easily. Next time don't ask why painfully pretty 24-33 year old girls are marrying 45-50year olds - like that Nigerian beauty queen and others like that Kenyan gospel singer-instead of getting their own age mates. The older guys know how to listen and take care of their women and they wont update every problem that happens on Facebook.
Cheers!
Njoki TheGood-Badgirl
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