Don't accept the "complicated-moody-guy-traits' when you don't accept the same from your friends! Let me do some "woman-plaining" here, When a nigga isn't respecting you before your first date, after your first date, after your first sex, he will NEVER CHANGE that, or better YOU WILL NEVER be able to CHANGE HIM over that matter. So when you accept bullshit from some basic lame guy who call every female a hoe and a bitch even in your presence, and just because the females can't slap the daylights out of him, you DESERVE that dipstick! Everyone loves being respected, every woman must be given her respect without begging!
•I automatically hate, bile over, unfollow and detach myself from males who feel like they are the high priests of 'hoe' branding and moral policing in these streets! Males on the blame please keep your opinions on how Kenyan women should dress for your girlfriend and wife only and leave the rest of us alone! Just because you CANT qualify to be that lady's man, just because she makes money that leaves you wondering where she gets it from, just because she wont answer your greetings - does not warrant you to go all over tainting her pretty name. Do useful stuff with yourself, like a business or something like body building, else, you should shut your gob and try harder or rather elsewhere.
•Shamelessly, some plain girls will call other better looking, better dressing, 'money making', achieved, brainier, innocent ladies "whores" just because they can't touch up to that bar-they secretly envy, i call these girls "basic chicks" who'll never see that pedestal because they 'despise' it publicly and privately boil over getting their ass on the same high table. Little girls, style up. You can't have what you speak ill off. Don't go calling others whores when you're never paid for their services or seen them or without holding believable evidence! Whatever happened to woman power!
•This is a journey as well as a game, love warmly "hearts us" and people hurt each other. When you accept bullshit from the start of it, do not expect more than that, in fact, expect less everyday because your standard so low it can't keep you warm in this may weather! Show them how you want it!
Its a requirement for every person, male and female (it should be made law!) to have a list of crap they cant stand being fed, Because of all the failed relationships, they have failed because the foundation was so poor it couldn't hold the water in the rainy days. As much as we earn respect, your stature and style of how you run your world or speak, must DEMAND that respect.
•••Lady, no matter where you come from, don't suck up to people who don't make you feel good about about yourself and accept you. When a man makes you feel like he is a life time challenge and its just the first two weeks of meeting him, let it stop there, challenge is for decided couples not when auditioning on who to date!
1.Please never ever remind a guy of a date he promised. if at all he was so into you, he wouldn't be freaking forgetting it!
2.Don't allow a nigga to brand you as his bitch even if he does it while kissing you hard, step out if he feels he's so nigga to stop that black Hollywood shitty lingo!
3.Don't ask a guy out, its his job in the beginning of a relationship to plan and ask you. Otherwise, you wanna propose to him also? he'll run! or disappear...
4.At the start of your intimate relationship, no matter how many zeros you have as your salary, please don't give/lend a nigga your money. It becomes a habit he wont stop. and you're not a micro-finance bank are you?
5.If you're into dating older married fellows, because that player wont marry you, milk all his money, chop it till he drops you, then go look for your agemate. In fact, make sure he's a money popper, otherwise don't be with an old and or married geezer who won't FINANCE your ass and waste your 7years! Make him pay for all your academic degrees where possible!
6.Don't date "machali wa base" who sit and 'chew' miraa outside your "gates" the whole freaking day. Even if he got sexy eyes and biceps! Forget him. Bicepts wont buy you bread! He has adapted to that style and changing that shady habit is none of your business woman! Unless thats the life you figure to have.
7.Keep off those males who are in the "i don't know if i want a relationship" zone even after dating you for eight weeks, girl, its not that they "don't want a relationship", the truth is they don't want one with you!
8.When that guy you are 'auditioning' to date starts suggesting changes that you should make to look hot like his mother, Let him go!
9. A woman must NOT live plan-less, always have a PLAN B. Lady's, always mind your own hustle, get a job or a business however small, even if its retailing those cooked smokies! just in case that guy flees you'll have something to keep your mind busy!
10.If your five months relationship is all a Sexting relationship and seeing each other once in a blue moon to sex things up, forget it. that's some bullshit foundation!
Never expect less bullshit if you accepted and enabled any in the beginning, it doesn't work that way. It can only top up!
[Again, you don't tell a guy all this ↑ to his face, unless he insults you to your face, just watch him and when he doesn't impress you or step up to your plate, pass him over like its funny and catch the next bus! ]
P.S if the favorite question the guy you've been dating for three months now is "Are you home? I'm close by" and "We do a sleep over at your place?"....drop him like a hot potato, he's just a playin' peter pan!.....and if both of your idea of dating is meeting up at club Bettys then later in your room, girl, get serious, that's not dating, its "meeting/hooking up" you guys are just good buddies!
Cheers!
Njoki, TheGood-BadGirl!
•I automatically hate, bile over, unfollow and detach myself from males who feel like they are the high priests of 'hoe' branding and moral policing in these streets! Males on the blame please keep your opinions on how Kenyan women should dress for your girlfriend and wife only and leave the rest of us alone! Just because you CANT qualify to be that lady's man, just because she makes money that leaves you wondering where she gets it from, just because she wont answer your greetings - does not warrant you to go all over tainting her pretty name. Do useful stuff with yourself, like a business or something like body building, else, you should shut your gob and try harder or rather elsewhere.
•Shamelessly, some plain girls will call other better looking, better dressing, 'money making', achieved, brainier, innocent ladies "whores" just because they can't touch up to that bar-they secretly envy, i call these girls "basic chicks" who'll never see that pedestal because they 'despise' it publicly and privately boil over getting their ass on the same high table. Little girls, style up. You can't have what you speak ill off. Don't go calling others whores when you're never paid for their services or seen them or without holding believable evidence! Whatever happened to woman power!
•This is a journey as well as a game, love warmly "hearts us" and people hurt each other. When you accept bullshit from the start of it, do not expect more than that, in fact, expect less everyday because your standard so low it can't keep you warm in this may weather! Show them how you want it!
Its a requirement for every person, male and female (it should be made law!) to have a list of crap they cant stand being fed, Because of all the failed relationships, they have failed because the foundation was so poor it couldn't hold the water in the rainy days. As much as we earn respect, your stature and style of how you run your world or speak, must DEMAND that respect.
•••Lady, no matter where you come from, don't suck up to people who don't make you feel good about about yourself and accept you. When a man makes you feel like he is a life time challenge and its just the first two weeks of meeting him, let it stop there, challenge is for decided couples not when auditioning on who to date!
1.Please never ever remind a guy of a date he promised. if at all he was so into you, he wouldn't be freaking forgetting it!
2.Don't allow a nigga to brand you as his bitch even if he does it while kissing you hard, step out if he feels he's so nigga to stop that black Hollywood shitty lingo!
3.Don't ask a guy out, its his job in the beginning of a relationship to plan and ask you. Otherwise, you wanna propose to him also? he'll run! or disappear...
4.At the start of your intimate relationship, no matter how many zeros you have as your salary, please don't give/lend a nigga your money. It becomes a habit he wont stop. and you're not a micro-finance bank are you?
5.If you're into dating older married fellows, because that player wont marry you, milk all his money, chop it till he drops you, then go look for your agemate. In fact, make sure he's a money popper, otherwise don't be with an old and or married geezer who won't FINANCE your ass and waste your 7years! Make him pay for all your academic degrees where possible!
6.Don't date "machali wa base" who sit and 'chew' miraa outside your "gates" the whole freaking day. Even if he got sexy eyes and biceps! Forget him. Bicepts wont buy you bread! He has adapted to that style and changing that shady habit is none of your business woman! Unless thats the life you figure to have.
7.Keep off those males who are in the "i don't know if i want a relationship" zone even after dating you for eight weeks, girl, its not that they "don't want a relationship", the truth is they don't want one with you!
8.When that guy you are 'auditioning' to date starts suggesting changes that you should make to look hot like his mother, Let him go!
9. A woman must NOT live plan-less, always have a PLAN B. Lady's, always mind your own hustle, get a job or a business however small, even if its retailing those cooked smokies! just in case that guy flees you'll have something to keep your mind busy!
10.If your five months relationship is all a Sexting relationship and seeing each other once in a blue moon to sex things up, forget it. that's some bullshit foundation!
Never expect less bullshit if you accepted and enabled any in the beginning, it doesn't work that way. It can only top up!
[Again, you don't tell a guy all this ↑ to his face, unless he insults you to your face, just watch him and when he doesn't impress you or step up to your plate, pass him over like its funny and catch the next bus! ]
P.S if the favorite question the guy you've been dating for three months now is "Are you home? I'm close by" and "We do a sleep over at your place?"....drop him like a hot potato, he's just a playin' peter pan!.....and if both of your idea of dating is meeting up at club Bettys then later in your room, girl, get serious, that's not dating, its "meeting/hooking up" you guys are just good buddies!
Cheers!
Njoki, TheGood-BadGirl!
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