We are living in a generation where people are getting depressed if their semi-nude photos do not get enough likes, still, the same people are taking the short end of the stick in their real lives, accepting stuff they do not deserve, accepting less that they're 'paying' for. Some people insult others all day, they are lions in their web life, but they cannot even tell their partners they do not eat madondo, they'd rather eat the baked madondo from the supermarket under duress, making faces and complain later when passing the foul gas is out of hand!
Confused clueless, anxious, nervous youths biting their nails in their own film of life which they can easily direct.
The girls and women do not want to say upfront what they want. They are just taking anything that’s given including “Club dates” "WhatsApp Dates" "Twitter DM Dates" "FB Inbox Dates" "Show Me Your Tits On Skype Dates" and finally “In the Keja Dates” to have sex and then 'divorce' on Tuesday when the guy doesn't text back to confirm that sex was off the hook and if they're now the 'official weekend wife'.
Most girls & women want serious exclusive committed relationships, but then again they’re not saying it from the word go, they are not putting it on the table, they are not stating their terms and conditions of tagging along on the journey to nowhere with a guy they do not know very well.
Women are comfortable hallucinating a relationship without knowing the guy well, what he does, where he lives, or even his second name, they only know his street name 'young money' because he drives around the hood with daddy's car. Women are afraid of asking the questions that matter, like names, where he lives, where he works, his ambitions, his hobby, his favorite food, his place of birth[lest you're related], and instead women are more concerned on things they shouldn't like; looking at his shoe size so as to guess the size of his Dick, women are more concerned by the size of his fingers that they've been told give ideas on the size of the willy, they're busy looking at his tongue so as to imagine other dirtier things, and at the same time the men are clever enough to know what category of woman they will put you in, and when they will kick your ass out of their lives the minute they see how you as a woman is driving it away without even asking his 'destination'. When you want to guess and imagine they have married you just because they brought you a Mzinga, men let you go ahead.
Men always say it squarely something I have to give them a High Five for! A man will very well tell you he wants to be friends with benefits, a man will say he is not ready to get into a relationship [and get this right, it’s not like he’s not ready for a relationship, it’s YOU he is not ready for a relationship with], a man always say when he’s looking to marry, a man will always say when he just want to have ‘fun’ so that if you want to leave you can freaking LEAVE!
...But the women are afraid that if they stated their truths, poured their hearts out honestly on the specifications of what they want and looking for, the men in question will run!...Isn’t it better if he runs and spares your time?….and then in the end when they’ve been in ‘friends with benefits’ for twelve years the girl complains of having ‘been used’, her time has been wasted…girl, you participated!
There’s nothing sexy as a person who knows what they want, when and how. But women here are choosing to live on walking on eggshells and sinking sands not knowing exactly what they are into, not knowing when it will sink in or crash…women in their 26th, 27th year, 30th year are satisfied being unsure of ‘what it is’ , not knowing ‘where things are going’ and are realizing it was a game a century later.
Whats so hard about telling a guy that you're working towards a relationship that brings forth a 'Ruracio' , a healthy relationship that will see next year, that will see you meeting his parents? If he's not yours he will still leave even if you pretend you like being his 'fuck buddy'. Accepting his shoddy terms doesn't make the guy rate you high.
If he has guts to ask you to be his 'fuck-mate' you should have more guts to say that is what you were praying for or that is NOT what you're looking for...and when you can't say it, just block his ass on every social media, he will get it.
If you just want to play SAY it, confident people say it every day and those who are not interested in playing the game leave them every day, its not neuroscience. If you want to be exclusive, say it! If someone lies from there then you can accuse them for leading you on. Otherwise SHUT it.
Don’t start the silence games and over-texting asking where it’s going, asking him if you're now his official girlfriend and if he loves you thirteen SEXscapades later….seriously!
Yo' Girl
©NjokiGoodBadGirl™2016
Confused clueless, anxious, nervous youths biting their nails in their own film of life which they can easily direct.
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The girls and women do not want to say upfront what they want. They are just taking anything that’s given including “Club dates” "WhatsApp Dates" "Twitter DM Dates" "FB Inbox Dates" "Show Me Your Tits On Skype Dates" and finally “In the Keja Dates” to have sex and then 'divorce' on Tuesday when the guy doesn't text back to confirm that sex was off the hook and if they're now the 'official weekend wife'.
Most girls & women want serious exclusive committed relationships, but then again they’re not saying it from the word go, they are not putting it on the table, they are not stating their terms and conditions of tagging along on the journey to nowhere with a guy they do not know very well.
Women are comfortable hallucinating a relationship without knowing the guy well, what he does, where he lives, or even his second name, they only know his street name 'young money' because he drives around the hood with daddy's car. Women are afraid of asking the questions that matter, like names, where he lives, where he works, his ambitions, his hobby, his favorite food, his place of birth[lest you're related], and instead women are more concerned on things they shouldn't like; looking at his shoe size so as to guess the size of his Dick, women are more concerned by the size of his fingers that they've been told give ideas on the size of the willy, they're busy looking at his tongue so as to imagine other dirtier things, and at the same time the men are clever enough to know what category of woman they will put you in, and when they will kick your ass out of their lives the minute they see how you as a woman is driving it away without even asking his 'destination'. When you want to guess and imagine they have married you just because they brought you a Mzinga, men let you go ahead.
Men always say it squarely something I have to give them a High Five for! A man will very well tell you he wants to be friends with benefits, a man will say he is not ready to get into a relationship [and get this right, it’s not like he’s not ready for a relationship, it’s YOU he is not ready for a relationship with], a man always say when he’s looking to marry, a man will always say when he just want to have ‘fun’ so that if you want to leave you can freaking LEAVE!
...But the women are afraid that if they stated their truths, poured their hearts out honestly on the specifications of what they want and looking for, the men in question will run!...Isn’t it better if he runs and spares your time?….and then in the end when they’ve been in ‘friends with benefits’ for twelve years the girl complains of having ‘been used’, her time has been wasted…girl, you participated!
There’s nothing sexy as a person who knows what they want, when and how. But women here are choosing to live on walking on eggshells and sinking sands not knowing exactly what they are into, not knowing when it will sink in or crash…women in their 26th, 27th year, 30th year are satisfied being unsure of ‘what it is’ , not knowing ‘where things are going’ and are realizing it was a game a century later.
Whats so hard about telling a guy that you're working towards a relationship that brings forth a 'Ruracio' , a healthy relationship that will see next year, that will see you meeting his parents? If he's not yours he will still leave even if you pretend you like being his 'fuck buddy'. Accepting his shoddy terms doesn't make the guy rate you high.
If he has guts to ask you to be his 'fuck-mate' you should have more guts to say that is what you were praying for or that is NOT what you're looking for...and when you can't say it, just block his ass on every social media, he will get it.
If you just want to play SAY it, confident people say it every day and those who are not interested in playing the game leave them every day, its not neuroscience. If you want to be exclusive, say it! If someone lies from there then you can accuse them for leading you on. Otherwise SHUT it.
Don’t start the silence games and over-texting asking where it’s going, asking him if you're now his official girlfriend and if he loves you thirteen SEXscapades later….seriously!
Yo' Girl
©NjokiGoodBadGirl™2016
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