Now, women are emotional beings. That’s why arguing with them is useless most of the times because they know how to manipulate that win, don't joke. But then again, women do not use this power when it comes to emotions, relationships and love. Matters of the heart and brain become algebraic when a hot dude with a bulge gets in the room.
Many Girls out here are busy acting to be fine with men are putting them in the "Open Relationships" zone, but later on in their lonely coaches and beds they’re crying a river out of loneliness, despair, feeling unloved, disrespected and uncared for, just because they accepted a stupid deal where in truth, they are the only ones who lose, Men don’t lose in these things since they can separate sex from emotions.
1."Friends with Benefits"
2. "Fuck Buddy" "Shag Mate"
3. “Swinging Buddy”
4. “Booty Call”
5. “No Strings Attached”
Be Honest With Your Selves Girls.
All the above labels mean the same thing. There are words to license your promiscuity or allowing yourself to be used with YOUR permission depending on where you are and who you are body-partying with, their difference is the same. Whatever your number is, he can booty call you anytime.
When you’re his fuck buddy, a shag mate, you’re not even friends, you just have meaningless sex and that’s it, no talking, in fact after that, the guy just wants to get rid of your ass!
Swinger partner is just him swinging between you and your best friends and you cannot say anything about it, in fact he can call for a six some if so he pleases and you can go drown in a puddle if you don’t want it!
Girls, I got news for you, when he tells you that he is not ready and that’s why he is putting you in these zones, think again, this is the same guy who will meet another girl , better than you, bitchier than you, one who doesn't take his foolishness and marry her in two weeks...so, it’s not about him not being ready for a SERIOUS relationship, it’s about HIM NOT Loving you enough to see you as girlfriend and eventual marriage material, it’s about him not valuing YOU!
Girls, you got to stop thinking that accepting this kind of bullshit makes you "COOL" "A BAD BITCH" and “MODERN” it doesn’t, it makes you stupid and makes you do bad 'bitch', {and why do girls like referring to themselves as bad bitches? the hell?}... it only wastes your time and lowers your respect bar! Imagine all his crazy ass friends will know you are his 'fuckmate' that one he doesn't really take seriously, that girl he will never take to see his mama... and when you are his friend with benefits, meaning he pays you for accepting his stupid bedroom bullying deals, girl, you're just a nice hoe who doesn't have an exact price for him, so he gives you what he can.
You know what, if you’re gonna “sell” the cookie you better sell it at a very high price [coz friends with benefits is 'quietly' selling pussy} , sell at a very high price such that can pay for your degree, buy expensive clothes, scents and bags, pay your rent or buy you a home and cars just not for free or 2 beers, coz you’re not gonna sell pussy till you’re 90. We cannot have cheap hoes! If your body is that cute to be used by the richest homie in the hood, make it your Business Empire. That’s the only way you can call it win- win. Being in these lame relationships that only gets you a stupid dick and a dose of morning after pill, is not a win- win situation, it’s rather a stupid lose- lose package. There’s absolutely nothing that you are working towards and that’s moronic.
After girls like you go home, you wanna take rat rat and die, you slit your wrists, coz you are emotional and you want to belong, you want that guy to love you, hug, you, cuddle with you, respect you and eventually marry you, but since y'all in open relationships YOU are not ALLOWED to say what you want, no, let me rephrase, YOU are NOT ALLOWED to want to say what you want, he dogs on you as you watch, he 'sucks' with your enemy as you watch!
You know what, good news is there’s nothing a nigga can do if you refuse to subscribe to their nonsense, in fact, they will respect you, hate you, then leave you the hell alone. Be the queen you were made to be, so they can either take it or leave you alone plus your power, don't give it away!
Bottom line is engaging in open relationships that makes you feel disrespected and demeaned most of the times is pure donkey shit. You know why? Because these guys who ask you to be in open relationships and be their fuckmate won’t like it when you’re actually fucking with their friends like they fuck with yours. It’s always a hook and sinker to make you allow him to go shagging with whoever he likes as you keep faithful, see, no man will allow you to go messing around! who wants a licked lollipop anyway?
In any case, a guy will play and party with your body until the next hot thing passes by and Bam! You’re dropped! Would you rather stay in a lodging or get your own house?... see, when someone violently fucks you and leaves as he wishes without emotions or any responsibility towards the whole engagement, he is using you as a ‘lodging’ and not as his ‘house’ that he has to be responsible for its upkeep. You get me?
Ladies, I am a Woman and I know we do not like sharing, we do not like sharing stuff like spoons and face powder sponges! Why the hell should we want to share a D in full knowledge? see, open relationships are like a huge Ouija Board, the rules keep changing without alerting us, big evil half-truths come up and you do not know if you should believe them or run, emotions run wild.
Before accepting bullshit deals from men, consult your emotions, brains, heart and know whether you're ready to have it shoved down your throat.
Stay single if he cannot love you honestly and be exclusive and if you cannot stand lonely sad nights when a guy you're shagging uploads photos of himself and other girls don't engage in stupidity.
Don’t get played. Life's too long when you make bad decisions.
Yo' Girl,
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