The adjective meaning of the word “baby” is ‘comparatively small or immature of its kind” refer to your online dictionary.
If you’re over 5 years, please don’t smile back when ladies calls you ‘baby’ baby what! Are you in adult diapers?! Men, stop accepting being infantilized for Christ's sake!
Let’s internalize the fact that the term ‘baby’ depicts, ‘a small helpless human’. Being called baby is infantilizing. Men have not only accepted to be called ‘Babies’ but they’ve also accepted being called ‘baby-boys’ and being complemented as being cute. Please, do not let musicians lie to you just because they sing about ‘baby boys’ - they are selling music, while you’re being disrespected.
Men, always suggest a pet name for you. Do not allow women to brand you “baby”, are you a man-child? An overgrown baby? If you are not one, why do you accept to be called “baby” a man with beard for Pete’s sake!!!? If anything a 'baby' is just some general name and she might just be calling you baby when she is actually thinking of some other thirteen annoying "babies" that she has, or it could be that she already forgot your legal name.
Being called "baby" is being minimized into an infant and I think this is the reason so many grown men are acting like children out here. Men who do not want responsibilities claiming they’re too young to be responsible enough to take care of kids they sire or even hold down a job at 27, and it’s your fault women! You have been infantilizing these grown-ass men since the setting in of the new millennium! This infantalization is the reason a grown 22 year old man will literally run away from a frog and a moth if not his own shadow!
Men, y’all need to get your girls to call you by your very own suggested pet names, e.g, Black hammer, Big Bear, Movie star, Soldier, Lion, My Buffalo, Anaconda, Womb raider, ATM, Care taker, Dial-a-Rent, perm Donor, Big sausage, Magic stick, Batman, Popeye,Captain Johnny or even Big banana but just NOT that “BABY” and “baby boy” thingy. Or even Chameleon if you lie most of the time.
Girls when you call a grown man baby you are making him feel like a little boy and that’s why you will continue paying his rent and buying his food, pampering him and soothing him up even when he does not respect you, as he sits on your sofa since you have made him get comfortable not growing up. In fact if you are rearing one in your house, a lazy bummer that does nothing the whole day and you still “BABY” him around, it is YOUR fault and you definitely deserve him. When you “baby” these grown men you make them have big bodies and infant brain. You make them have no crushing need to even hold down a job or even a simple 'take out the trash' responsibility.
Lets show Men that we believe they are mature and can make decisions by themselves , that they can be held responsible, otherwise, you should let them go, coz who wants to marry and live a ‘big baby’ anyway?
Men please refuse to be called by this name, it’s really not endearing, and it devalues you especially if you have a visible beard and biceps. It’s dismissive and demeaning.
Being called ‘Baby’ is so second rate, its mediocre, tacky, too common and generally very stupid, ratty and tatty considering the age the person being called.
Girls, give your Lover men responsible names like: “My King”… “My Emperor”… “Stud”… “Beloved”… “My Man”… “Mi lord” the last one drops some nobility, this will make him feel like THAT big title and when he has a good brain, he will be steered to act like it, and also he will reflect back and call you his “Empress” “His lady” and “Queen” these are big names that makes you feel and want to be responsible. There’s this dude that calls me his lady, he is just a close friend younger than I, but that alone makes me feel so damn good and respected, it makes me want to be more of a lady…it will work the same on you too…just like when someone implies you’re a thief, that you stole their pen… doesn’t it make you want to actually steal that pen so that you can be ‘accused of a true crime’….? Yeah, this catalyst made of ‘labels and references’ works with the same effect.
Mr. Man, do not allow girls to minimize you into a boy unless you are one, if you cannot be creative you can just ask her to call you Oga, Chief, Chairman, Mzee or even Long John, which are way better names because you will know it is YOUR reference.
Just imagine a thread where ‘Facebook lovers’ text each other with ‘baby’ in every line…how do they look and sound? Intelligent? Petty? Childish? Immature? …. Yeah I thought so!
Just like being told you’re cute by women, cats are cute, are you a cat now? The guys who can perhaps be called "cute" are the boys who plait their hair, those who say awwww! Every minute, and those that got ‘umama’ [as my friend Franco over there on FB calls it] …and of course those put up “cufflinks” on their ears.
Someone told me men are called ‘baby’ because they’re breastfed which is making them retain the infant mentality…well...
Seriously mature men never accept pet names like baby-boy, babe, bae, and baby….to be used on them especially publicly, unless you’re under 5 years, continue being babied by your woman, coz she most probably thinks you act like a baby, she thinks you are as incompetent as a baby is, and she probably thinks you are as childish, maybe that’s why you’re always complaining that she doesn’t respect you.
Thank me later guys!
Yo’ Girl,
Njoki,ThatGoodBadGirl
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