Men today have really taken the 'Equality' thing so seriously that they too want to be chased down to their mamas house for dating as well, they want you to go throw a pebble on their window at night so that they wake up and jump down the balcony to come over and have a five minute romance sport with you under the moonlight. They want women to be their 'Knights'. Guys i have news for you, until you have stolen our hearts, that wont happen, unless the lady is just too desperate to have you before she even knows your real legal name.
I have had like a dozen guys leaving their number on inboxes, on pms, writing their numbers on my palm, asking their friends to ask me to call them, giving their cards...etc and unless its business related matter, i have no business, chasing a guy down, bursting his cellphone with texts explaining who i am, where we met, and what i was wearing, how much i was swept off my high heels, when he was giving me that number.
I have a high opinion and respect for a Man who dares to ask for my number, to me he portrays confidence & courage, [in person , its so easy online...] because if i like them, i give the number peacefully, since i still hold the power to ignore them when they start pissing me off.
Very few men will dare ask a woman for her number these days. Guys want women to be the ones chasing them by calling them, impressing them, compelling them over and complimenting them on how 'cute' they really are, ladies do not fall for this because;
• A fellow who gives you his number and asks you to call is just a 'pussy' cat who is afraid of being rejected by you , and very very scared of you declining to give your number.
•This is the same type of a man that will take you out on a date and slip the bill to your direction so you pay for what you've spent.
• A man who gives you his number online and goes like 'call me' or 'text me' before you 'know' him outside the medium or before you exchange a line or two, leaves the responsibility on you, he leaves the ball in your court to do whatever you please with his number, because he doesn't give a damn whether you communicate or not...of which you shouldn't anyway.
• These type of men just want to elevate and boost their ego, way up above their heads. they are like 'the chicks chase me' so he undoubtedly won't value you. Easy come easy go.
•He is just a douche who is not really interested in you enough to risk asking for your number directly.
•These guys got no testosterone whatsoever, are very proud and cannot handle asking a lady for a simple number and risk being smacked by the confident ones who are not interested. They don't want to hassle!
•These guys are a frustrated lot who sit and expects women to do the chasing since they're too cute to follow through and have the dumb mentality of "women are too many men can have three at a go, so they'll chase"
•These 'jerkamos' are uncertain of themselves and are not really after a relationship, they're just playing out their manipulative games on you.
NB: Guys,unless you want to be friend-zoned for life, take the risk [its attractive as hell] ask a girl for her number ...and not typing yours then logging out hastily to go wait for her call because you're so chicken. Shame on you by the way!
Young ladies, When you start chasing guys even before you know each others names, you sign up for being the pants wearers in these relationships. Halt the mission and pay attention only to those interested enough to properly ask you for your contacts and then ask you out.
PS...These types of spineless guys just want to get laid, and they want YOU as the woman to catalyze the process. Oh how ignominious can this be! arrrgggghh!
With Love,
©2015 Njoki_TheGoodBadGirl
...Have your say in the comments.
I have had like a dozen guys leaving their number on inboxes, on pms, writing their numbers on my palm, asking their friends to ask me to call them, giving their cards...etc and unless its business related matter, i have no business, chasing a guy down, bursting his cellphone with texts explaining who i am, where we met, and what i was wearing, how much i was swept off my high heels, when he was giving me that number.
I have a high opinion and respect for a Man who dares to ask for my number, to me he portrays confidence & courage, [in person , its so easy online...] because if i like them, i give the number peacefully, since i still hold the power to ignore them when they start pissing me off.
Very few men will dare ask a woman for her number these days. Guys want women to be the ones chasing them by calling them, impressing them, compelling them over and complimenting them on how 'cute' they really are, ladies do not fall for this because;
• A fellow who gives you his number and asks you to call is just a 'pussy' cat who is afraid of being rejected by you , and very very scared of you declining to give your number.
•This is the same type of a man that will take you out on a date and slip the bill to your direction so you pay for what you've spent.
• A man who gives you his number online and goes like 'call me' or 'text me' before you 'know' him outside the medium or before you exchange a line or two, leaves the responsibility on you, he leaves the ball in your court to do whatever you please with his number, because he doesn't give a damn whether you communicate or not...of which you shouldn't anyway.
• These type of men just want to elevate and boost their ego, way up above their heads. they are like 'the chicks chase me' so he undoubtedly won't value you. Easy come easy go.
•He is just a douche who is not really interested in you enough to risk asking for your number directly.
•These guys got no testosterone whatsoever, are very proud and cannot handle asking a lady for a simple number and risk being smacked by the confident ones who are not interested. They don't want to hassle!
•These guys are a frustrated lot who sit and expects women to do the chasing since they're too cute to follow through and have the dumb mentality of "women are too many men can have three at a go, so they'll chase"
•These 'jerkamos' are uncertain of themselves and are not really after a relationship, they're just playing out their manipulative games on you.
NB: Guys,unless you want to be friend-zoned for life, take the risk [its attractive as hell] ask a girl for her number ...and not typing yours then logging out hastily to go wait for her call because you're so chicken. Shame on you by the way!
Young ladies, When you start chasing guys even before you know each others names, you sign up for being the pants wearers in these relationships. Halt the mission and pay attention only to those interested enough to properly ask you for your contacts and then ask you out.
PS...These types of spineless guys just want to get laid, and they want YOU as the woman to catalyze the process. Oh how ignominious can this be! arrrgggghh!
With Love,
©2015 Njoki_TheGoodBadGirl
...Have your say in the comments.
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