Being a woman, i can relate to how annoying it is when you say NO to a guy that you are not interested in at ALL, and he still doesn't get it, and to make matters worse, the dude thinks we are in the 60's when NO mean't Yes!
Guys, am a woman I know how we miscommunicate our interest and disinterest, if you actually thought you're the only ones that can be evil and heartless in relationships, think again! chicks can well play your games as well.
Sometimes we act the way we do because we do not yet believe that you really like us, we tend to think that you're just gaming like other guys, so we will be very drama-full just to avoid you.
All the same, most times we are just NOT Attracted to you, to avoid wasting your time on women that are NOT into YOU, let the below points sink.
• That moment you ask her out for a date, and since she gave you her number just to be polite, without reserve, she asks you NOT to pick her from her house but ten blocks away, or she asks you to wait for her at the venue, Man, this kind of a girl just doesn't want to be seen with you, maybe by a guy she already has or has a crush on. When i like a guy he will have to come for me from the bed.
•When she does not pick up your calls, because she did not "hear" it ring since her phone is on "always silent" mode, she is just letting you know that she doesn't want to talk to you! and she doesn't really give a rats behind what you feel!
•When she won't let you touch her, not even her hand when you're out there, she is just avoiding any physical attachments that you may have started to have because she is not not into you! when am into a guy, i really get close to him because i feel at home with him.I automatically find myself leaning in.
•When you are out with a girl, you are busy talking your tongue away and she just checks her watch as you talk or checks her phone, well dude, just let her go, cuz evidently she ain' paying any attention to you and whatever you have to say. When we want to impress you, we listen or act like we are listening, if we are not hearing you, we are not feeling you.
•When she ignores your texts from Facebook to whats app, even after they report her to have read with the 'seen' alert and she still doesn't bother to reply, boy , just let her go, she doesn't like you that bad. When we like guys we always want to chat with them with every opportunity even past our sleeping hours.
• When everyone tells you that you are funny but she wont just get your jokes, dude, better take a hike, cuz this chick is not feeling your vibe. When we like guys we laugh at their lame jokes, just to show them we are cool with whatever they have to say, as long as its not about out fat or flaws.
• When you really want to give her that hug after two weeks of not seeing her and from a meter away, she plainly extends her hand so that you can get it that she doesn't want to hug. A girl who is not into you will even tell you she is into a religion that doesn't allow hugging before marriage. So boy, just take a walk!
• Just when you felt you are so ready for a serious, exclusive, committed relationship because you are 30 and she is 28 and she tells you that she is not ready to have any relationship right now, because she is busy figuring her life out, man, she is damn lying, its all because she is just not that into you. We girls love to be in exclusive relationships, and if we don't like you that much, we wont want a relationship with you when you ask.
• When she flirts with other guys in your presence or even your very own friends, man, she is just trying to get across the message that she wants other guys and definitely not you!
• When she tries to hook you up with her best friend, that should let you know that she absolutely thinks you are not her type...
•Every-time you ask her out she has lame excuses like; mmmhh nope i wont be available, my neighbors dog died am attending the burial, the boy next door will kidnap me because he thinks i like him, its too cold to go outside, it might rain, i will let you know when am ready to go out...exhausting right? well, leave her alone.
• When a chick gets the gut to tell you that you are a great friend, that; you will make an awesome husband, that you look like you can be a great boyfriend, that your girlfriend and future wife will be lucky as hell to have you, man, you are in the fence zone toppled with the friend zone! If she was really into you, she would have been THAT girlfriend already if she believed you were that great. We are women, we like winning!
• You know chicks love texting long right? oh yeah, and if she gives you the one worded replies, boy! get a ride, cuz this girl is not into you, and she is really trying hard to annoy you with "haha" "ok" "kul" "Mi2" "xoxo" "lol" "9t" after sending to her a very long paragraph explaining your feelings. Move on and don't waste your data and airtime cuz this one can't wait to get you off her back.
• You are three months old into the relationship and when you tell her that you love her she goes like "you kidding right?" "oh really now?" "come on you're embarrassing me" "why do you?" or just giggles and changes topic, well, you're on your own love traffic which is one way. When we really really loves you back, we will look into your eyes and say the words as well, and even include your name.
Partners are in plenty, keep trying because there's always someone out there for everyone. Thank me later....
Sincerely,
Njoki_TheGoodBadGirl ©2015
Guys, am a woman I know how we miscommunicate our interest and disinterest, if you actually thought you're the only ones that can be evil and heartless in relationships, think again! chicks can well play your games as well.
Sometimes we act the way we do because we do not yet believe that you really like us, we tend to think that you're just gaming like other guys, so we will be very drama-full just to avoid you.
All the same, most times we are just NOT Attracted to you, to avoid wasting your time on women that are NOT into YOU, let the below points sink.
• That moment you ask her out for a date, and since she gave you her number just to be polite, without reserve, she asks you NOT to pick her from her house but ten blocks away, or she asks you to wait for her at the venue, Man, this kind of a girl just doesn't want to be seen with you, maybe by a guy she already has or has a crush on. When i like a guy he will have to come for me from the bed.
•When she does not pick up your calls, because she did not "hear" it ring since her phone is on "always silent" mode, she is just letting you know that she doesn't want to talk to you! and she doesn't really give a rats behind what you feel!
•When she won't let you touch her, not even her hand when you're out there, she is just avoiding any physical attachments that you may have started to have because she is not not into you! when am into a guy, i really get close to him because i feel at home with him.I automatically find myself leaning in.
•When you are out with a girl, you are busy talking your tongue away and she just checks her watch as you talk or checks her phone, well dude, just let her go, cuz evidently she ain' paying any attention to you and whatever you have to say. When we want to impress you, we listen or act like we are listening, if we are not hearing you, we are not feeling you.
•When she ignores your texts from Facebook to whats app, even after they report her to have read with the 'seen' alert and she still doesn't bother to reply, boy , just let her go, she doesn't like you that bad. When we like guys we always want to chat with them with every opportunity even past our sleeping hours.
• When everyone tells you that you are funny but she wont just get your jokes, dude, better take a hike, cuz this chick is not feeling your vibe. When we like guys we laugh at their lame jokes, just to show them we are cool with whatever they have to say, as long as its not about out fat or flaws.
• When you really want to give her that hug after two weeks of not seeing her and from a meter away, she plainly extends her hand so that you can get it that she doesn't want to hug. A girl who is not into you will even tell you she is into a religion that doesn't allow hugging before marriage. So boy, just take a walk!
• Just when you felt you are so ready for a serious, exclusive, committed relationship because you are 30 and she is 28 and she tells you that she is not ready to have any relationship right now, because she is busy figuring her life out, man, she is damn lying, its all because she is just not that into you. We girls love to be in exclusive relationships, and if we don't like you that much, we wont want a relationship with you when you ask.
• When she flirts with other guys in your presence or even your very own friends, man, she is just trying to get across the message that she wants other guys and definitely not you!
• When she tries to hook you up with her best friend, that should let you know that she absolutely thinks you are not her type...
•Every-time you ask her out she has lame excuses like; mmmhh nope i wont be available, my neighbors dog died am attending the burial, the boy next door will kidnap me because he thinks i like him, its too cold to go outside, it might rain, i will let you know when am ready to go out...exhausting right? well, leave her alone.
• When a chick gets the gut to tell you that you are a great friend, that; you will make an awesome husband, that you look like you can be a great boyfriend, that your girlfriend and future wife will be lucky as hell to have you, man, you are in the fence zone toppled with the friend zone! If she was really into you, she would have been THAT girlfriend already if she believed you were that great. We are women, we like winning!
• You know chicks love texting long right? oh yeah, and if she gives you the one worded replies, boy! get a ride, cuz this girl is not into you, and she is really trying hard to annoy you with "haha" "ok" "kul" "Mi2" "xoxo" "lol" "9t" after sending to her a very long paragraph explaining your feelings. Move on and don't waste your data and airtime cuz this one can't wait to get you off her back.
• You are three months old into the relationship and when you tell her that you love her she goes like "you kidding right?" "oh really now?" "come on you're embarrassing me" "why do you?" or just giggles and changes topic, well, you're on your own love traffic which is one way. When we really really loves you back, we will look into your eyes and say the words as well, and even include your name.
Partners are in plenty, keep trying because there's always someone out there for everyone. Thank me later....
Sincerely,
Njoki_TheGoodBadGirl ©2015
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