People are in denial and have blatantly refused to admit that the people they love are hurting them everyday. Things get much worse when you choose to stay in an ugly relationship knowingly. Staying in a draining partnership in the name of love, a relationship which makes you feel sad most of the time, a relationship that makes you feel "small" and unloved, that is not love because love does not hurt, people do instigate the hurt, love is never blind, you are, we are. People like being under a title of being in a relationship for the sake of it and for the sake of not being identified as single. I have been there so i relate closely.
People who treat others this way, are not necessarily evil, it's only that they cannot say "its over" to your face because they're so chicken about it, and their only trick is make you feel bad so that you can leave voluntarily, which is a clever way to avoid the responsibility of a break up.
People who are in sick relationships are serially single without knowing it, just check if you're among'st them.
You're seriously single within a relationship IF...
• The only "Hun" and "Dear" you get to hear is from your high-school classmate when you hook up. These lovely words to make you feel good and if you do not get to hear them from the person who claims to love you, girl, you're single!
• If your partner is more perfect at Ghosting on you than he is in treating you nicely, dear, you're still single! get out there and mingle while he or she is away!
• If your interests does not matter to him or her, and when it comes to dealing with her/his interests they want you there 100% , then consider yourself still uncared for and very single!
• All your partner does is embarrass you in front of yours and his friends in the name of its just a joke that's total crap, someone who loves you doesn't look to humiliate you in public!
• Your girl doesn't respect you and she has all the confidence on earth to flirt with other guys in your presence in the name of it'n nothing serious, we're just friends.
• Your guy is not respectful and all he will do at the party is grab other girls asses in your presence because he is too drunk and "doesn't know what he is doing". Drunk people do stuff they already thought of doing when sober, don't fall for that nonsense!
• When you tell your partner you love them they go like "awwww, thank you" and they hastily kiss you, [to shut you up] or get all quick into making love to you to evade saying they love you too. You're single my friend.
• When you text your partner just to say you love them at 9 am, they ignore you the whole damn day by not seeing your text and only text back at 10 pm with just a "hey you..." , and if they replied in an hour's time the reply is "same" and "me too" or "thanks hun" ...respect your self and walk out on such pseudo-smart flimflam!...This is unrequited love, and nothing hurts like it, so hey guess what, you're still single!
• When you take your partner's nonsense; they beat you, humiliate you, threaten you of leaving, makes you feel inadequate, JUST because they are cute, popular or wealthy, darling, that's not love, you're still single as far as the book of love is concerned!
• If he tells you that you're too fat or too thin, tells you that you do not look good in the clothes that were his favorite when you met, that ninja no longer loves you, he is just being an A***ole, leave him alone.
• If you constantly think you are the problem, because your partner insists you are the problem, then you guys have a problem and the problem is that thing you're calling a relationship and the sooner you're out of it, the better!
• He comes home drunk and angry, his temper is ever 99%, he throws things at you, beats the hell out of you because he loves you. Seriously are there women in this century who still believe in this kind of shit? when its a girl, she is full of violent-drama, she wont give you peace or let you talk or be yourself, man, run for your life before you lose it to depression!
• When he is being really mean to you, this is a toxic time bomb, its unhealthy when the person you LOVE is the same person that makes you feel miserable...is it really worth it? why take crumbs when you can have the whole bread?
When and if you are feeling all single, alone and lonely while you are "In a Relationship" please run while you still can, or are you going to sit and watch your heart break into small tiny little pieces that even Dr. House can't fix?
You know what?...Life is not short, its in fact Long; when you make bad decisions, when you're constantly sick, when you stay in straining-draining relationships, and when you're broke... If you're no longer their flavor, let them GO, vamoose!
With Love,
Njoki_TheGoodBadGirl.©2015
People who treat others this way, are not necessarily evil, it's only that they cannot say "its over" to your face because they're so chicken about it, and their only trick is make you feel bad so that you can leave voluntarily, which is a clever way to avoid the responsibility of a break up.
People who are in sick relationships are serially single without knowing it, just check if you're among'st them.
You're seriously single within a relationship IF...
• The only "Hun" and "Dear" you get to hear is from your high-school classmate when you hook up. These lovely words to make you feel good and if you do not get to hear them from the person who claims to love you, girl, you're single!
• If your partner is more perfect at Ghosting on you than he is in treating you nicely, dear, you're still single! get out there and mingle while he or she is away!
• If your interests does not matter to him or her, and when it comes to dealing with her/his interests they want you there 100% , then consider yourself still uncared for and very single!
• All your partner does is embarrass you in front of yours and his friends in the name of its just a joke that's total crap, someone who loves you doesn't look to humiliate you in public!
• Your girl doesn't respect you and she has all the confidence on earth to flirt with other guys in your presence in the name of it'n nothing serious, we're just friends.
• Your guy is not respectful and all he will do at the party is grab other girls asses in your presence because he is too drunk and "doesn't know what he is doing". Drunk people do stuff they already thought of doing when sober, don't fall for that nonsense!
• When you tell your partner you love them they go like "awwww, thank you" and they hastily kiss you, [to shut you up] or get all quick into making love to you to evade saying they love you too. You're single my friend.
• When you text your partner just to say you love them at 9 am, they ignore you the whole damn day by not seeing your text and only text back at 10 pm with just a "hey you..." , and if they replied in an hour's time the reply is "same" and "me too" or "thanks hun" ...respect your self and walk out on such pseudo-smart flimflam!...This is unrequited love, and nothing hurts like it, so hey guess what, you're still single!
• When you take your partner's nonsense; they beat you, humiliate you, threaten you of leaving, makes you feel inadequate, JUST because they are cute, popular or wealthy, darling, that's not love, you're still single as far as the book of love is concerned!
• If he tells you that you're too fat or too thin, tells you that you do not look good in the clothes that were his favorite when you met, that ninja no longer loves you, he is just being an A***ole, leave him alone.
• If you constantly think you are the problem, because your partner insists you are the problem, then you guys have a problem and the problem is that thing you're calling a relationship and the sooner you're out of it, the better!
• He comes home drunk and angry, his temper is ever 99%, he throws things at you, beats the hell out of you because he loves you. Seriously are there women in this century who still believe in this kind of shit? when its a girl, she is full of violent-drama, she wont give you peace or let you talk or be yourself, man, run for your life before you lose it to depression!
• When he is being really mean to you, this is a toxic time bomb, its unhealthy when the person you LOVE is the same person that makes you feel miserable...is it really worth it? why take crumbs when you can have the whole bread?
When and if you are feeling all single, alone and lonely while you are "In a Relationship" please run while you still can, or are you going to sit and watch your heart break into small tiny little pieces that even Dr. House can't fix?
You know what?...Life is not short, its in fact Long; when you make bad decisions, when you're constantly sick, when you stay in straining-draining relationships, and when you're broke... If you're no longer their flavor, let them GO, vamoose!
With Love,
Njoki_TheGoodBadGirl.©2015
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