We all have come across, handsome guys back in our estates, in our colleges and campus. Handsome guys and pretty girls that we feel could improve if they stopped wearing the ugly sweaters, frightening skirt and make up, the horribly sagging skinny jeans, the torn dirty jeans or some second hand old sahara boots he wears with everything and the four year old type of nasty underwear. Handsome and beautiful people whose only problem is; they just just don't have a "proper" or breathtaking/impressive/attractive dressing code.
Talking about Men [not boys] I love me a man who dresses sharply; well polished dress shoes plus a well fitting navy blue, charcoal grey colored suit, always sweeps away my attention, this kind of a guy will get anything off me... when he is mine :) ...but then again we can't just get the rich guy, the educated guy, the super handsome guy who knows how to dress "well" all in one package.Those who are, are either painfully married, gay or well...a lost case. I believe that no woman should ignore a guy who dresses bad or rather shabbily or in sheng' a "shagsmondoz" kind of guy, who has every other good quality you like in a man but the granpa' sweater and knit cap he likes rocking Monday to Monday. There are simple ways to help such guys change into dressing like the hot movie star you'd love them to be.
Here are some free tricks...but Only if you have an exemplary style taste yourself.
• When its a new relationship, don't go jumping your guns and start telling him how 'fugly' he looks in his old clothes, DON'T! you will scare him away! [don't lose a guy who treats you like a queen over his knee-length NETS- fugly jerseys] First stay put, swallow the current pill and learn him, you can always pick his personality in 90 or even 30 days, that way you're able to know what would fit his sweet personality [that first attracted you to him] well without trying so hard. This will help you evenly match is career/job dress-code and his personality without making him look ludicrous at work.
• Do not tell him what you don't like on him, just compliment only on what you like, this way he won't think you want to control him, [men hate being controlled and when stuff are imposed on them, ask them] this way he will note how you never compliment him when he wears his drag queen clothes and too tight Chinos, and he will pick up on wearing only what you tell him he looks sexy in. [and don't just say he looks sexy, show him what he can get when he looks sexy everyday]. No criticism. It doesn't work on anyone. I remember the more my mom told me not to wear short dresses the more i wore them!
• Don't we all love some appreciation, When you love and appreciate him for who he is, making him throw away old socks will be super easy. But bitching around how bad he looks in his corduroy or polyester pleated trousers will just piss him off and probably he will think you're a psycho, hate and leave you for good. Just like we love being appreciated, men are human and they love that piece of cake as well.
• Buy him the stuff you want him to wear, as a gift, then plan a date and make sure you iron the clothing and like a good woman, help him dress in it; more like you buy and create an occasion, then when on it, make sure you tell him how great he looks if only to encourage him into trusting you to dress him up.
• When he wears the sharp dress shoe you helped him [or made him] choose, assure him that he look magnificent! we all love being uplifted in every area of life, and our men should most get to adored, praised, and stroked well with good encouraging words, tell him how handsome he is, and tell him how smart you think he will look in some dress boots and the jeans you just bought him. Inspire and elevate him and he will follow.
• Men like women love being puffed up when they do something good, where he impresses you, duly compliment him, like if he finally wore the suit you bought him, give him all the love so that he can be encouraged to buy three more suits for himself.
• When the style you want your man in is the smart casual...and you always dress up like miss Jezebel ...well, that won't work, be a good example, dress as appropriately as you want him to look as a way to compliment the efforts you are putting towards him. Ask him playfully what he thinks you look sexy in, and when he tells you, follow his advice because you can't feed your baby what you can't taste.
• You cannot bitch or insult him, not in the bedroom or worse off in the public, this tears and dwindles a man confidence close to irreparably, he will rebel and even leave you for a quieter even 'shaggier' 'uglier' woman than you. Always be pleasant, just like you won't like it when he bitches and overly tells at you how 'elephanty' you look, or say you have a croissant or a baguette bread shape when you wear tight clothes that shows all your waist 'tyres', don't humiliate him in private or public! Men have emotions too, and that's why they leave women without a word.
• When is the unrealistic, the hot head and or hardheaded, the type that feels that a there's no way he can stop wearing his cheap over sized suits because of a woman, the type that feels like he's got it all together, freaking bribe him! into the change you wan't. Relationships are an investment, always try all means possible to make him wear the shirts you like, in ways that will not come out as intruding or butting in.
When you finally make it to buy him new clothes, two years down the line, make sure you get rid of his old junk one by one. He won't notice his sillyass cowboy underwear with a hole in-front is missing if you're still being gentle to him without haunting or tormenting him. Let him be with his friends all he wants, let him play his play-station all afternoon, let him watch football without sitting on his face and asking him who the player named Samsung and AON is playing for...and all will be well.
When you do all this while still being Respecting, congratulating him for getting into the new style you love, while assuring him of your love, you will have won effortlessly from a "fugly bugly mugly" looking person, into making the man you've always WANTED!
P.S This works when the Man is actually totally yours.
Thank me later!
With Love,
Njoki_TheGoodbadGirl ©2015
Talking about Men [not boys] I love me a man who dresses sharply; well polished dress shoes plus a well fitting navy blue, charcoal grey colored suit, always sweeps away my attention, this kind of a guy will get anything off me... when he is mine :) ...but then again we can't just get the rich guy, the educated guy, the super handsome guy who knows how to dress "well" all in one package.Those who are, are either painfully married, gay or well...a lost case. I believe that no woman should ignore a guy who dresses bad or rather shabbily or in sheng' a "shagsmondoz" kind of guy, who has every other good quality you like in a man but the granpa' sweater and knit cap he likes rocking Monday to Monday. There are simple ways to help such guys change into dressing like the hot movie star you'd love them to be.
Here are some free tricks...but Only if you have an exemplary style taste yourself.
• When its a new relationship, don't go jumping your guns and start telling him how 'fugly' he looks in his old clothes, DON'T! you will scare him away! [don't lose a guy who treats you like a queen over his knee-length NETS- fugly jerseys] First stay put, swallow the current pill and learn him, you can always pick his personality in 90 or even 30 days, that way you're able to know what would fit his sweet personality [that first attracted you to him] well without trying so hard. This will help you evenly match is career/job dress-code and his personality without making him look ludicrous at work.
• Do not tell him what you don't like on him, just compliment only on what you like, this way he won't think you want to control him, [men hate being controlled and when stuff are imposed on them, ask them] this way he will note how you never compliment him when he wears his drag queen clothes and too tight Chinos, and he will pick up on wearing only what you tell him he looks sexy in. [and don't just say he looks sexy, show him what he can get when he looks sexy everyday]. No criticism. It doesn't work on anyone. I remember the more my mom told me not to wear short dresses the more i wore them!
• Don't we all love some appreciation, When you love and appreciate him for who he is, making him throw away old socks will be super easy. But bitching around how bad he looks in his corduroy or polyester pleated trousers will just piss him off and probably he will think you're a psycho, hate and leave you for good. Just like we love being appreciated, men are human and they love that piece of cake as well.
• Buy him the stuff you want him to wear, as a gift, then plan a date and make sure you iron the clothing and like a good woman, help him dress in it; more like you buy and create an occasion, then when on it, make sure you tell him how great he looks if only to encourage him into trusting you to dress him up.
• When he wears the sharp dress shoe you helped him [or made him] choose, assure him that he look magnificent! we all love being uplifted in every area of life, and our men should most get to adored, praised, and stroked well with good encouraging words, tell him how handsome he is, and tell him how smart you think he will look in some dress boots and the jeans you just bought him. Inspire and elevate him and he will follow.
• Men like women love being puffed up when they do something good, where he impresses you, duly compliment him, like if he finally wore the suit you bought him, give him all the love so that he can be encouraged to buy three more suits for himself.
• When the style you want your man in is the smart casual...and you always dress up like miss Jezebel ...well, that won't work, be a good example, dress as appropriately as you want him to look as a way to compliment the efforts you are putting towards him. Ask him playfully what he thinks you look sexy in, and when he tells you, follow his advice because you can't feed your baby what you can't taste.
• You cannot bitch or insult him, not in the bedroom or worse off in the public, this tears and dwindles a man confidence close to irreparably, he will rebel and even leave you for a quieter even 'shaggier' 'uglier' woman than you. Always be pleasant, just like you won't like it when he bitches and overly tells at you how 'elephanty' you look, or say you have a croissant or a baguette bread shape when you wear tight clothes that shows all your waist 'tyres', don't humiliate him in private or public! Men have emotions too, and that's why they leave women without a word.
• When is the unrealistic, the hot head and or hardheaded, the type that feels that a there's no way he can stop wearing his cheap over sized suits because of a woman, the type that feels like he's got it all together, freaking bribe him! into the change you wan't. Relationships are an investment, always try all means possible to make him wear the shirts you like, in ways that will not come out as intruding or butting in.
When you finally make it to buy him new clothes, two years down the line, make sure you get rid of his old junk one by one. He won't notice his sillyass cowboy underwear with a hole in-front is missing if you're still being gentle to him without haunting or tormenting him. Let him be with his friends all he wants, let him play his play-station all afternoon, let him watch football without sitting on his face and asking him who the player named Samsung and AON is playing for...and all will be well.
When you do all this while still being Respecting, congratulating him for getting into the new style you love, while assuring him of your love, you will have won effortlessly from a "fugly bugly mugly" looking person, into making the man you've always WANTED!
P.S This works when the Man is actually totally yours.
Thank me later!
With Love,
Njoki_TheGoodbadGirl ©2015
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