The interest starts at puberty, just when you are about to join high school, the curiosity drives young boys especially, to want to see what happens in the world of naked people who have nothing to hide. I have read and heard tales of recovered pornography addicts and its not different from alcoholism.
It's all fun and games until you realize you cannot do without a daily dose of pornographic material at only fifteen years. Pornography like any drug is addictive and I can only imagine what is currently happening to twelve year old's with the presence of expensive cellphones that parents are too happy to buy for the cool kids generation!
Pornography only takes one search and the links are all over, I honestly do pity young parents who think its better to buy their 11 year old a smart phone instead of paying for them to join or encouraging them to join an estate football team. We cannot afford to be "cool" with kids just because we are in the digital era, as grown ups, we should know better and refrain from encouraging "Smart phone Lonesomeness". One parent is a discussion said that she checks the browser history, really? kids are not dumb, they know how to delete browsing history and further more whats the use of knowing your child watched porn on their cellphone instead of just disabling it? We cannot enable a habit then cry about it later.
When internet keeps people up all night, its not because they like it or have no work to do, they are addicted to the internet. Some to Facebook, twitter, YouTube funny videos while others, it's the Pornographic websites. Just imagine what is happening to those who started getting hooked by age fourteen!
Sex is healthy, but porn is never healthy. Here are some of the ways watching pornography is detrimental to your wholesomeness especially, Men.
• Pornography makes you a slave, it distracts you from your daily life just to freaking fap, like seriously! a habit making you stop everything just to have sex with yourself? can't you see you can easily go crazy? I have heard of young guys who cannot concentrate on studying without popping a "privater browser" just to watch a five minute clip, just to waste his sperm on some tissue.
• Pornography makes man have these unrealistic expectations with women. Whatever a man sees on porn, whatever unrealistic styles and toys the characters put on and in each other, a man will expect his partner to pull the same stunts, and where the partner is not conversant or willing, the man will not be happy with the results, creating a "communication" breakdown.
• Pornographic materials makes a man lose his bond with real life women, a Kenyan man will imagine that all his girlfriends must be pink under their skirts, they will imagine that all the vijayjays are the same as what they saw from the porn stars and nothing can make his mind get away from that false thought... and when he finds out its just an illusion, this man will detest real life women [since they don't have waxed pinkies] and choose to "chill" on screen with his fantastic perfect imaginary women. Porn is a bad spirit.
• With pornography a man expects and believes that all women must have anal sex with him and makes him believe its normal, just like he witnessed on his phone or tv screen. What these guys don't recognize is that these stars also practice to get rods of wood and hose pipes in them,to get that "perfect". It is just acting, porn is not love making! You cannot practice porn on a women you love!
• Pornography will cause men to have low self esteem, this is because no porn will have guys with tiny penis, they cast for the biggest, these perfect seeming men are hand-selected, when the guy at home sees that and compares, he feels overwhelmed by the fact that his thingy is tiny winy and he cannot do a thing about it, and if he has the money, he will start buying drugs to try get his willy bigger, and when it doesn't, he will feel like a complete fool and failure. This fella will have a lot of issues trying to approach real life women.
• Pornography makes a man stupid, very very stupid, a man who watches too much porn meaning he is addicted, can be a rapist, if especially he is watching the extremes of it, there versions of porn where they abuse teenagers, others they abuse women of different races and beat them, gang rape them, others abuse animals, and i can imagine these scenes exciting and fueling a grown man enough for him to do the exact same out here. With porn a man loses his purpose as well because it becomes sex sex sex sex in his mind every day every time!
• Pornography will waste a man's time, the time a man plays hide and seek just sit there having some imaginary sex is the very freaking time he'd have used to get a girlfriend, or a wife to get laid.
• With pornography having so many versions of women from thin to thick, a man will be influenced to be player, since he will want to have a taste of sex from different types of women.
• Men who watch pornographic videos are influenced to believe that every women must give them oral sex, and if not, they get mad, mad enough to be violent, bitter and very foolish. They might bite and beat.
• A porn addict will never, can never be a passionate love making man, instead he will be "violently taking" women just like he sees on porn.
• A pornography addict will well lose his interest in real life sex and be content with a five minute clip which will arouse him till his next dose. Which will contribute in his erectile dysfunction as he grows as his system will be used to finish off within a minute or two.
Pornography is cheap, seemingly fun, but it leaves you with guilt, with regret, bruised palms & fingers, leaves you feeling empty and most of all leaves you Discontented and Comfortless!
Don't just sit there and waste away your precious sexual energy and your soap & vaseline, find something else constructive you can do with it instead. I have read that Muhammad Ali never had sex or masturbated six weeks to his matches, just to keep that energy for his matches.
Quit watching pornography today, you can stop it when you decide you want to, if the smartphone is influencing you, sell it and get a less quality phone that does not have internet connection, get your self a serious hobby that does not involve the internet, talk to someone who can help you out of it, disconnect your internet completely, and you can give yourself a target of No Porn For 30 Days and see how it goes. Its never easy or hard, until you can begin. Start today, you will not regret it.
With Love,
Njoki_GoodBadGirl ©2015
It's all fun and games until you realize you cannot do without a daily dose of pornographic material at only fifteen years. Pornography like any drug is addictive and I can only imagine what is currently happening to twelve year old's with the presence of expensive cellphones that parents are too happy to buy for the cool kids generation!
Pornography only takes one search and the links are all over, I honestly do pity young parents who think its better to buy their 11 year old a smart phone instead of paying for them to join or encouraging them to join an estate football team. We cannot afford to be "cool" with kids just because we are in the digital era, as grown ups, we should know better and refrain from encouraging "Smart phone Lonesomeness". One parent is a discussion said that she checks the browser history, really? kids are not dumb, they know how to delete browsing history and further more whats the use of knowing your child watched porn on their cellphone instead of just disabling it? We cannot enable a habit then cry about it later.
When internet keeps people up all night, its not because they like it or have no work to do, they are addicted to the internet. Some to Facebook, twitter, YouTube funny videos while others, it's the Pornographic websites. Just imagine what is happening to those who started getting hooked by age fourteen!
Sex is healthy, but porn is never healthy. Here are some of the ways watching pornography is detrimental to your wholesomeness especially, Men.
• Pornography makes you a slave, it distracts you from your daily life just to freaking fap, like seriously! a habit making you stop everything just to have sex with yourself? can't you see you can easily go crazy? I have heard of young guys who cannot concentrate on studying without popping a "privater browser" just to watch a five minute clip, just to waste his sperm on some tissue.
• Pornography makes man have these unrealistic expectations with women. Whatever a man sees on porn, whatever unrealistic styles and toys the characters put on and in each other, a man will expect his partner to pull the same stunts, and where the partner is not conversant or willing, the man will not be happy with the results, creating a "communication" breakdown.
• Pornographic materials makes a man lose his bond with real life women, a Kenyan man will imagine that all his girlfriends must be pink under their skirts, they will imagine that all the vijayjays are the same as what they saw from the porn stars and nothing can make his mind get away from that false thought... and when he finds out its just an illusion, this man will detest real life women [since they don't have waxed pinkies] and choose to "chill" on screen with his fantastic perfect imaginary women. Porn is a bad spirit.
• With pornography a man expects and believes that all women must have anal sex with him and makes him believe its normal, just like he witnessed on his phone or tv screen. What these guys don't recognize is that these stars also practice to get rods of wood and hose pipes in them,to get that "perfect". It is just acting, porn is not love making! You cannot practice porn on a women you love!
• Pornography will cause men to have low self esteem, this is because no porn will have guys with tiny penis, they cast for the biggest, these perfect seeming men are hand-selected, when the guy at home sees that and compares, he feels overwhelmed by the fact that his thingy is tiny winy and he cannot do a thing about it, and if he has the money, he will start buying drugs to try get his willy bigger, and when it doesn't, he will feel like a complete fool and failure. This fella will have a lot of issues trying to approach real life women.
• Pornography makes a man stupid, very very stupid, a man who watches too much porn meaning he is addicted, can be a rapist, if especially he is watching the extremes of it, there versions of porn where they abuse teenagers, others they abuse women of different races and beat them, gang rape them, others abuse animals, and i can imagine these scenes exciting and fueling a grown man enough for him to do the exact same out here. With porn a man loses his purpose as well because it becomes sex sex sex sex in his mind every day every time!
• Pornography will waste a man's time, the time a man plays hide and seek just sit there having some imaginary sex is the very freaking time he'd have used to get a girlfriend, or a wife to get laid.
• With pornography having so many versions of women from thin to thick, a man will be influenced to be player, since he will want to have a taste of sex from different types of women.
• Men who watch pornographic videos are influenced to believe that every women must give them oral sex, and if not, they get mad, mad enough to be violent, bitter and very foolish. They might bite and beat.
• A porn addict will never, can never be a passionate love making man, instead he will be "violently taking" women just like he sees on porn.
• A pornography addict will well lose his interest in real life sex and be content with a five minute clip which will arouse him till his next dose. Which will contribute in his erectile dysfunction as he grows as his system will be used to finish off within a minute or two.
Pornography is cheap, seemingly fun, but it leaves you with guilt, with regret, bruised palms & fingers, leaves you feeling empty and most of all leaves you Discontented and Comfortless!
Don't just sit there and waste away your precious sexual energy and your soap & vaseline, find something else constructive you can do with it instead. I have read that Muhammad Ali never had sex or masturbated six weeks to his matches, just to keep that energy for his matches.
Quit watching pornography today, you can stop it when you decide you want to, if the smartphone is influencing you, sell it and get a less quality phone that does not have internet connection, get your self a serious hobby that does not involve the internet, talk to someone who can help you out of it, disconnect your internet completely, and you can give yourself a target of No Porn For 30 Days and see how it goes. Its never easy or hard, until you can begin. Start today, you will not regret it.
With Love,
Njoki_GoodBadGirl ©2015
This time round, I couldn't agree with you more. Good one.
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