Women do not necessarily cheat, and when you catch them doing something that looks like an affair, they are not cheating but just releasing an emotional stock burden you gave them. When we decide to love we love deeply and for a woman to go hugging another man suggestively, making obvious moves, seeking a shoulder to lean on means you as her man is failing on your part, you may have developed a very huge belly that made you very unattractive to look at while naked, you may have stopped shaving your pubic hairs, you may have stopped brushing your teeth or cleaning your navel etc. While men usually cheat for the steamy thrill of the adventure, a woman looks for some tender love and care, Read;Passion. If again she was your previous MWK, and now your main woman, trust me that there's a 70-30 chance that she will involve her self in an affair, just like you involved your self with her while in a relationship. Say karma. In her mind you're a cheat and she cannot really, entirely trust you. Read;Insecure.
Men pretend to be busier than Obama while they are as equally employed in a eight hour jobs like the many others in this city, they will act like they serve in Gaza strip, such that they won't even get time to cuddle or talk the talk or even make a phone call to their baby to say something or even reply to text. These are the guys that think cuddling is stupid and think that sex is only appropriate on their beds. These guys think a two and a half minute foreplay is enough, they are inconsiderate about their woman's feelings when they act like this, knowing very well women like being engaged emotionally and mentally in nearly everything. I mean everything. That's how the female OS works. Just engage the mind and emotions and BAM! you've got it!
It's very rare for a woman to cheat for the mere thrill of it, a woman will cheat because its revenge time, because she found your wandering penis out. A woman will cheat to fill in that emotional hole that you've left wide open. Keep in in mind that when you're not giving her the attention she deserves, there are other guys, many of them, cornering her to give just that. Just as men assume or rather pretend that women are too many that he will just get another one that easily after messing up intentionally; we assume the same, because, evidently, there's no shortage, at least not of todgers to mess with.
We strongly hold on to the fact that, being heard is close to being loved. Your woman will go out there to have an affair with your best buddy because she is lonely, and your buddy has been telling her how beautiful and curvy she is, how he wishes she were his, how her smile is warm, how her walk is sassy, how great she looks after two babies; things that you don't bother telling her. We like hearing sweet things or sweet nothings; this is the method that the players, the smooth operating love thugs have been using all along to get laid by all the hot and not hot girls. They usually know what to say to a woman, how to make her wet just by a text, i mean wet her lips yearning for just a kiss even before the thug gets closer to her. And by nice juicy words the love thugs get away with it, smart and simple.
Men here and everywhere else will say that all women love money and if they don't get enough to shop every weekend they will go out there get a loaded guy and cheat serially. No. You may have all the money on earth for your woman, but when you're never there, she spots where she can be listened to and loved [even if its imaginary] . Its a presence over presents matter. We've seen women married to rich men going ahead and getting laid by their gardeners, right? its same logic. When you're not around to play with her, she seeks it elsewhere even if it will mean stooping as low as your toilet cleaner. Remember even the driver she eyes owns a prick and she will get it when you won't give it to her good. Read;Sexual fulfillment.
All the same, whoever cheats, should know that Cheating and lying are not a gun point choices, they are just choices, self made. Most of these issues we have in relationships can well be solved by proper Communication. See a woman will "fall in love" or rather infatuate over some some guy she met once, who just texts or calls her, that kind of a guy messes up her fragile emotions and that's it he has her in his palms. Communications plays a big role here.
Bottom line is ,there's no ultimate excuse for Cheating. Not one. You'll only cheat when you no longer respect your partner. Period.
Yours Truly,
Njoki, TheGood_BadGirl
#TeamNoBullshit
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