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                                         No Woman No-Don't Cry....

They've said "Ni Hujuma! yani nimWorship hivi na haoni anitreat vizuri"...Women complain of this way day in day out how bad their guys are treating them and ask what they should do now, [duuuuh, move it like you've seen a ghost]  ...and actually they write to ask what these actions mean, what certain texts and gestures mean [not being called/texts]....Love is hard i know, but most times, we ignore the red-flags from the beginning of the sour 'drama festival' arrangement and this is the major reason we fall in the bottomless pit of sorrow. Some get married for the "title" of it, only to be sidechick'd by the fella, yes you can be the side-chick to your 'boyfriend', maybe he is afraid to leave your benefits because you two spend YOUR money or live in YOUR house ...more because by the way, males are pretty weak, the stronger women do push men that do not love them into marriage and the man goes deep into THAT shit just like a goat walks in when its going to be slaughtered, I'm sure you've seen the goats reaction huh....it happens a lot.

Men at fault treat their old cars, jordan sneakers [brand new second hands fakes] and dogs way better than their staying 'woman' haven't you witnessed? Others actually admit they are dogs, am talking those that have the nerve to call their woman "my bitch" that title has a reaction of its opposite....i do not care how much you profess your love or spend on me, but i can never be your bitch. Girls don't allow these silly insults and stunts. When you stick by these typa' niggas, blame none other than yourself since you made YOUR GRAND CHOICE to make your ass available to that foolish unavailable male; after all the evidence of dis-regard,and dis-respect....after he's tired of you, replaces you and kicks you out, you cry that heart out.....as he enjoys his nights out.


See, With all the new age laziness and ONLINE Craze, we definitely cant avoid "dating" and "making friends" online - some are even throwing their marbles further and are marrying online --without ever meeting..jeeeez!  Believe me, Lunatics are many and are hiding behind their gadgets, be careful who you wanna meet and be their '2 hours stand' forget the one nights they're too long nowadays, the world is quick..... Still there are a handful of great honest guys as well, looking for genuine TLC. We cannot condemn all

Men are really amazing, -depending on what they are doing [to you], see most will not even want to be the lately popular FWB- friends with benefits, they will just ask for the BENEFITS upfront without flinching...didn't i chat with a guy online, who called me 'miss scorch' and said he will look to impregnate me the day I'll go out on a date with him.... Yes its that's hot out here. And who would i blame if i met with such kind of insane? and confusing such talk for compliments...Eyes wide shut! When guys come on you in this direct way and out-rightly show you their WANTs, and like the rat that kissed the python, you get squeeeeeeeezed and swallowed whole. Your legs walked you there, cry not sister.....cry not. Dust yourself and try again.

The guys who are still hallucinating still believe the foolery that they are a hundred over a thousand girls, and they're bluffin....people are getting married every Saturday, if their theory were true these men marrying and proposing everyday wouldn't bother settle for just one....so these guys who believe we have to fight over them, feel that we should be lucky to have them sniffin' around us....butt hell!  the real issue is These type of males have no respect for themselves- do not expect them to respect you...and if you got zero value for yourself, don't envision about being valued by any.  'Charity begins at home'-they said.


Ladies, being so accommodating, patience and understanding is our Ultimate CHARM....and CURSE at the same time, that's why many are still in nerve-wrecking relations all in the name of "He will Change With Time"....someone said that depressed people have a tendency of promiscuity and relationship instability, they treat their partners bad, since they have issues deep inside. Women like helping such, but the real story is; Do not imagine you can help them, especially when they did not get depressed "under" your "roof" you gon' have a haaaardass time tryna make it right for him, because you'll burn lots of time. People i insist, do no change because you prove you can suffer for them, they change because they CHOOSE TO. Change comes from within.


Girls, lets use our brain in equal measure as our hearts and tu-feelings.... when we start engaging our thinking right and fair, we find out how stupid we have been all the while sticking our necks for guys who woulnt stick out his finger for us. Jumping rivers for males who cannot step through a paddle for us.....make it a 'jihudumie kwanza' central.

Me, Njoki-TheGoodBadGirl.