Only Foolish Folks Settle For Quasi Relationships!

Some call it casual dating, i call it extremely decorated fear of commitment or commitment-phobia where the participants main point is eating their cake and still have it on the plate, unrealistic, unfair and not square. The men want to have to date seven chicks at the same time, "dating" is even more high end for such, men want to just have sex with seven chicks at the same round with zero responsibility. And women want to have sex and have the bills paid by the ten guys each by his portion of it. Which is okay, as long as your vagina doesn't get all sore and swell for humping on all those todgers. And or even carry an STD, considering that your vijayjay is vulnerable to catching STDs at first poke; a man might be carrying it without his knowledge for months and then load it in you. So beware.

The culture of "open relations" has always been there, better referred to as the Hook Up Culture, and our generations has only sharpened it by getting more shallow, short-sighted and superficial. Even the book of Ecclesiastes confirms 'there's nothing new under the sun', so yeah,. its been there. Casual "dating"..[I'm tempted to call it casual "sexing"] comes in various forms or relationship counterfeits; There is  [FWB] The Friends With Benefits, There is The [ONS] One Night Stand, There Is [NSA] No Strings Attached, [OP] Open relationships, [FB] Fuck buddy and the ruthless low esteemed [BC] Booty call, when you're a booty call your are usually their LAST option. keep that in mind. Booty calls includes when the guy/chick only calls to ask you when you're free so that s/he can come over, calls you out for a drink on late nights, wants you to be his/her valentine on Feb 13th midnight. The very last option. Who even stands being treated as last?

Smart women finish Rich or better with a Ring. If the benefits of any of the delusional quasi relationships is not buying me a huge piece of Land or a Huge Home somewhere at spring valley all in my name, then i wouldn't bother participate. Ladies gotta realize the value of wasting time and getting good returns for the same. Having someone pay your 8k rent and a 5k house shopping monthly its not smart enough a measure against wasting your minutes which turns to years in a 'destination to nowhere' kind of  relationship whilst killing all the chances of being is a sensible- loving- respectful relationship. I'm certain Broke girls do bad things. Girl if you are in a FWB relationship with a Broke dude or you are about to get into one, Hey! Abort Mission, I Repeat Abort Mission!!!.  FWB [which is popular in this city] DOESN'T apply for two broke people. Do your math, it doesn't matter if you scored a D- in math, just do your math. You're better getting a full hundred Love scene.

I personally do not support all the above forms of relationships, call me old school, but its with my amour propre that i respect monogamy and respecting my partner wholesomely, and when its over, its gets done in a civilized way and life goes on. I highly support monogamy, cuz its the most sensible and respectable. I would feel like a complete Manhattan ho' if i slept with two people in the same month! Most people here will pretend to be care free and that they DON'T want some special person caring for them, loving them, spoiling them, making good sincere love to them, calling and texting them, but all the pretense cooks up a heartache in the long-run because we all want to be Loved. Gosh! Who doesn't want to be frickin' Loved!? Mind and body, we all want Intimacy. Intimacy with all its lovey dovey is not included in the variations of the Quasi relationships which are all sham, surface, immature and just sex oriented. There is something great beyond just sex, sex without love leaves people depressed-which none of you will admit to be.

These dreadful relations look worse on women, having a couple of 'sex thugs' treat you like a vibrator just so that you can seem and be deemed as "an exciting chick", is just desperate. Note that behind your back, you're their whore and they talk about how bad they flexed, experimented and used you, they high five about it, they'll kick you out once the "commitment phobia" lunacy and idiocy leaves them, trust me, then they will get a girl who is worth it, and one that HASN'T been sleeping around. That is the HEIGHT of double standard with men...moulding you into their whore, "selling" you out as one, and then dumping you for a "saint". Choose one struggle, you cant be foolish all the time.

You have more chance of having quality feelings, quality love and quality sex in a committed relationships. Single or sexless hasn't killed anyone yet. in fact, anybody here at and beyond age twenty five still participating in this shitty meaningless screw up, is just not serious with their limited life. Treating sex like a basic need at that age is kind of foolish. Be with someone sensible you can't even talk about investing with. Someone you can share ideas. Open up to. What do people really want! Sex is an icing on the cake, it must-should be enjoyed under full intimacy, not just meeting and sliding it in without even a sorry peck. Sex is just a thing, Love, is everything.

With all the versions of these plastic, bullshitful relationships, their main point is having fun crawling in and out of different beds and sleeping around or better whoring around without anyone questioning you and your morals or getting jealous about your moves. No one asks you where you've been and with whom you've been with and whatever you were doing. It is an adventure in it self. Girls especially do not honestly  like it [they're all pretending they don't mind shit], we all love being the "Main Chicks" and carrying all his attention. 
The women and men involving themselves in all the fakery have self esteem issues and direly need a bucketful of self regard, they do not sincerely love-value themselves at all. They might even be suffering stress and depression. These kind of relationships are not for the fainthearted, it requires hard cores or better "don't cares" or those who pretend not to care or as better known for "not giving fucks". The problem is when you have too much of "not giving a fuck" attitude about stuff, the fucks will pile up into a big hip of fucks and extremely "fuck" you over. 
The Quasi Relationships End when you Begin Falling In Love.


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Sincerely,

©Njoki-TheGood-BadGirl!