What's the FUSS!? He's Your Man,Wash His Underwear!!!

This Uncommon sense of washing his little clothes... what's the drama? If the Man you Truly Love cannot clean his underwear - maybe he is a  lazy ass that piles them up on the floor - why not just clean them for him? whats the big deal? how can you be sucking his sweaty Johnie but wont clean his damn underwear? I even wonder - what if he got sick and puked allover your living room, wouldn't you clean it? It's amazing that some women would rather sex up a stranger without protection than clean their man's underwear! You clean your bloody stained panties and your man's pair shouldn't bring a fuss! There's no way on earth a right thinking respectable woman gives under-wears including her own, to the weekly maid to clean [she will tell everyone in that neighborhood], that is utterly wrong and not so African! That man is yours, clean him up, there's a reason people say these men are our "second babies" - because they really are, and should be looked after- but only if he is a REAL MAN- not some lazy ass douchebag that sits "pale kwa base" the whole day! but the man that hustles and brings home the bread! Buy him new briefs and duly clean his dirty inner-wears! is it that hard?

With Love, anything is possible! including getting in to the bathroom with him and scrubbing his back when you notice he is stinking for not washing well , especially behind his ears...or just for fun, that's what romance is all about - creating moments, not about ONLY him taking you to the fancy restaurants while you do lots of nothing! If you cannot have a house romance, then its useless parading yourselves outside that you're indeed a 'romantic' couple. Follow his ass to the bathroom , shower together cuz that alone brings its own love-steams and BAM! you make love, who doesn't like making spontaneous love around the house? We gotta stop being all cranky and boring around the house such that when your man enters that house you make noise like some old radio, with questions and questions, sulking and clicking, maybe his car broke down, one of his boys needed a third wheel, give the hardworking man a damned deserved break! be lovable, let him find you in some new red- or sexy black lingerie waiting for him, then LOVE him bad with actions cuz that's what makes love steams go round and round and round, tiny silly little actions that we ignore! and i promise you, he wont have a hard time leaving 10k for the house stock shopping twice a week! The way to his wallet is being GENUINELY nice to him, girls!

Our relationships are not about us satellite like- spreading our legs for our men--there's more to life than sex, as i said, sex is a  thing, the LOVE is everything else, Treat a deserving man well, by clean him up, making sure he doesn't recycle his stinking socks for a week, making sure his shirts are ironed,  make sure his sport shoes don't stink, making sure he doesn't walk around with a torn dirty secondhand Tommy Hilfiger underwear by cleaning it for him ,or throwing it away and buying a new one! Making sure he's still not wearing the same Ben 10 underwear from high school by trashing it away,  Whats the big deal in all this? A man is a human as well, he craves almost the same attention we women crave for, give it to him , as long as he gives it all to you in return. This gestures do not include the violent lunatics, the stingy assed ones and the womanizers....I saw a good looking man get out his nice car very well dressed but his black coat had some yellow stains on the back, patch looking like baby pumpkin food, and it got me wondering, if i noticed that, where was the wife looking? or maybe she was in a bad mood in the morning. Realize that; Unkempt better-half makes you look real bad and irresponsible.

Woman thou art his helper, help with the undies clean up, as long as they got no poop on 'em!  When we have kids, and the baby's nose get all blocked up, don't we just suck the phlegm out so that our little one doesn't choke?  i have at least done that, so it gets me to wonder what the big issue is when it comes to soaking that undie, then cleaning it nicely with love, hanging it, iron it, then fold it nicely for your honey pie. The traditional roles of the breadwinner and homemaker still remains strong, no matter what you say, equality is only 'equal' on TV and Newspapers. Don't let the TV people lie to you and alienate you into their superficial unrealistic ways, That fellow is yours, make his home, he will bring the bread in the evening.

Love between women and men, shouldn't not come in 30:70 portions or 50:50, it must be 100:100 ratio, both giving our all. Two people who truly want to last should meet in the middle each with 100:100 each to offer [i don't mean rent] i mean actions, the love , kindness, imperfectness, the interest to be in that relationship...We cannot just sit pretty and expect him to take us out all the time, buy expensive dinners and wine, then leave when it comes to folding his clothes in the morning, or ironing his underwear in the morning, we must be willing to give what we expect and reward in good faith what we are given in kind, if the love's not reciprocated, we are allowed to rethink our choice. 

When that man is responsible enough to have a decent job, earn a good living, provide for you fully and the kids, loves you and you can see through actions, he's smart enough to put his dirty undies in the laundry basket and not everywhere in the bedroom, why not just pick 'em and just wash? That doesn't make you his maid, and if you feel it does, aren't you making him your dad by sitting your ass all day and waiting for him to do everything for you? Its a give and give. When two people decide to give and give, it's all gonna be bliss. Problems come when we just want to take.

Get off your high plastic stallion, Off load some Ego, Clean his underwear like its your duty, it wont bite, I'm sure he will be Extremely Happy to clean your thong next time he finds it under his bed.

And who lied that "unconditional" Love exists? Everyone wants their love requited! Nothing is ever free even a torn and worn underwear. Try Gikomba, they sell 'em.

Sincerely

Njoki-TheGood-BadGirl!